a stupid question for you

[thefamily]

to spice up my marrage and after 25 yrs of marrage i decided to shave down below, well my q is a have a lot of stubble and was wondering if there something out there that helps with that or do i have to shave all the time and will it get less stubbles the more i shave. my husband seems to like it this way and i would like to keep it this way for him. we had sex the other night and it lasted for more then 3 hrs and if this helped i would like to keep it off. i know it wont aways be 3 hrs but it would be nice lol

[EvilEvilKitten]

Congrats!
You now have to shave all the time!

Or you can let it grow back out, just trim it from now on, and invest your time and energy "spicing up" by doing The Program and Body Worship.

[Buck Naked]

Hair grows back. That's just a sad fact of life. Only waxing will give you longer term effects, but that's not for everyone. My wife trims/shaves and so do I. Basically it becomes a personal grooming routine and I don't even think about it anymore.

[ohyeahbabe]

I shave down there for my bf, it's a pain, but he likes it and I want to make him happy!

thefamily, Do you shave your vagina opening or just the really hairy part?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Ah yes, "I want to make him happy". Well, of course you do. The dreaded male appeasement begins with just such small steps. She will endure whatever pain, trouble, and discomfort to make him happy because she holds herself responsible for his emotons. If he is unhappy, displeased, angry - it surely must be her fault and she must quickly correct her errors.

Do you not see the dangers of such accomodations?

Instead of her stepping down he should step up an become a man who does not require being pandered to.

[ohyeahbabe]

But if I don't shave, he won't play with it.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by ohyeahbabe

But if I don't shave, he won't play with it.

Wow what a selfish twit he is then.
If he was mine he would of been told to hit the road

[EvilEvilKitten]

So what?

He's not the only man around....go and get yourself a man and not some boy pretendig to be one.

Real men say : "JUST SHOW UP."

and they don't gve a damn if you're shaved or bushier than a wombat.
All they care about is you saying yes, and maybe liking them enough to go for seconds, or thirds, or fourths, or...you get the message. The point is that you are an adult and it is your body and all others have to accept your decisions about your body and what you choose to do to it and with it.

Stand up for yourself and let the unworthy fall by the wayside.

STOP ACCOMODATING MEN.
STOP APPEASING MEN.

[theus]

Relationship are about comprimise in ever since of the word. I personaily prefer a woman to be shaved. I have been with women who do not like to shave and I have still went down on them. If its unfcomforable for a woman in any way a man should be considerate of that fact. It is womans boby and a womans preference. However if you want a man to preform oral sex on you his opinoin should be considered. It is a much more pleasant experience if a woman is at least trimmed. If hes a good man you can work through this issue. Would any woman enjoying go down on a man whos penis was covered with hair. Im sure its possible some may not mind but I would guess many would prefer him to trim or shave entirely.

[Brandye]

"But if I don't shave, he won't play with it."

You cannot be serious. I have never shaved my pubic hair. I have never had difficulty finding someone to "play with it."