Anal sex beginner, IMPORTANT, please help.

[danyelle mitchell]

ok, i have a very embarassing situation....

me and my boyfriend recently had anal sex, and it was my first time. we were drunk and he didnt go slow, and we didnt use lube.
i woke up extremely sore and found it hard to even sit correctly.
im in alot of pain still a couple days after... i had my girlfriend look at my rectum to tell me how bad it looked. i myself am affraid to see it, but she said it looks like i have another vagina!!! like my asshole has lips.. like inside out, its gross. what once was a balloon knot looks now like a deflated balloon

it hurts so bad... how do i fix it??? do i have to push it back in? will it ever go back to normal...... im so embarassed but had nowhere to turn for answers on such a strange subject. PLEASE HELP!!!! im not joking, this is serious, as rediculous as this sounds.

[nuttychick]

Go to a doctor .........

[danyelle mitchell]

are you saying that cuz its really that bad? or u have no advice cuz u dont know what i mean...

[nuttychick]

Because thats what most normal people would do if they are that concerned with a problem with their body other then getting on a forum and asking random people who have no medical training...

[danyelle mitchell]

well i was too embarassed to go get someone to look at it, this way its anonymous, and the least humiliating way to get advice. what else is the womans health section for?

just asking what people think and if anyone has had this happen...

[dancingdoc2]

> are you saying that cuz its really that bad? or u have no advice cuz u dont know what i mean...

> well i was too embarassed to go get someone to look at it, this way its anonymous, and the least humiliating way to get advice. what else is the womans health section for?

Well, Danyelle, woman's health care, man's, childs, animals, there are doctors for a reason, embarrassing or not. We understand what you mean.

You should have had a gyn exam prior to having sex. Now that you have, you should go get your injury checked out. An injury is an injury, whether it is hidden between your legs, in your mouth, or on a finger. You need to be checked out, so swallow hard and get thee to the clinic or doctors office, PDQ & ASAP. Doctors and nurses have seen everything and heard everything, so just consider yourself to be one more in a long string. People have gone before you, and will come after.

What are you going to do if you ever become pregnant, have your girlfriend oversee the delivery? Come on now, you summoned up the courage to let your boyfriend not only see you but perform extremely intimate acts with you. A doctor and nurse are far more professional with all this.

[Brandye]

Tou may want to look around the site for some cautions regarding anal sex, including the chance of pregnancy. More importantly, you need to see a doctor right now. You can tell any story you wish but just get it looked at and fixed. There is a great chance of infection right now and this could be somewhere between starting you on a permanent problem with hemorrhoids and a prolapse - essentially being turned inside out.

With part of your rectum hanging out and a possibility of reduced blood flow, necrosis could set in and then you will really be in for a trip. See your doctor now.

[Brandye]

And, start taking a stool softener and stay on it until the doctor says to stop.