Just About Ready To Give Up *sigh*

[Brandye]

Sounds like unanimity here. Psychological abuse is ..... abuse.

[oaktree]

Originally Posted by Brandye

Sounds like unanimity here. Psychological abuse is ..... abuse.

Yra, i wont let some guy tear you down on something like that. Maybe he has problems that he used verbal abuse to make him self feel good.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Miss Carmen, you can orgasm from all four hotspots but you won't. Not with him and not ever. This is because you have permitted him to rule over you and to own you. Stop being a wimp in this relationship. Your guy is talking nonsense and he knows nothing.

Other women? Who cares! He is not with them (probably because they got tired of him) he's with you and he's doing a very bad job of making you happy. So maybe it is your turn now to kick him out.

Pressure to perform - well, sweety, the fact is that any woman truly in touch with her sexuality can easily out-gun any 6 men you'd care to name and your guy should be damn grateful to you that you're not driving his dead ass into the ground every night with demands for good sex that he cannot fulfill.

The truth here is that he does not know what he is doing and he is taking it out on you because he has a weak ego and cannot admit he's a total zero in bed.

I suggest that you kick him out or if it is his place that you walk away and don't look back.

Now then, before we leave the subject - the four hotspots are 1. the clitoris, 2. the G-Spot, 3. the anterior fornix, and 4. the posterior fornix. Only the clitoris is external and only the posterior fornix can be stimulated by thrusting on the part of the male. In women there are two items to be addressed when it comes to orgasming. 1. any past abuse including mental/emotional such as your current guy is dishing out and 2. while everything is in place her systems have to be brought online but this requires her to masturbate to orgasm and her finding a skilled practioner to help her bring the system together. Sync her up as it were.

And the best place to find a skilled practioner is, ta dah!, at your local Swing Lifestyle group. Why? Because they enjoy sex, they have few hang-ups, and they get a lot more practice with a lot more women so their skills are vastly improved. Ask the women to recommend which men to you - because some men are gifted in a particular area - hands, mouth, penis, massage - whatever you might need at the time. Yes, we trade notes and we pass men along if they're very good. "For cunnilingus you have got to get with C." - that sort of thing.

No, you're not a lesbian. You're just a woman who hasn't been educated or treated properly. It is about time you began DEMANDING better from men.