Whats wrong with me?

[gemmahorselover2007]

Everytime me and my bf have sex, when I am most postitions and he really thrusts into the inside of me, his penis hits something inside me and it can be quite painful. I have no idea what this is and it worries me. As soon as he releases the pressure it completely goes and I feel nothing. Has anyone experienced this? I thought he could be hitting my cervix but thats as much as I know. I am really worried as its starting to put me off sex.

To add to this, how do I know where my g-spot is as when my bf fingers me it all feels the same and I dont understand how you find it and how to stimulate it when you do. Please can someone help me.

[dancingdoc2]

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From your description it seems likely that his penis is contacting your Cervix. If you insert a finger you should be able to feel the neck and mouth of it. When a penis pokes or jabs against it there is usually some discomfort or pain. Just touching or rubbing it won't be bothersome.

I recommend that you try different positions and/or that he not thrust until you are certain the angle of penetration is away from the organ. Have him just move around just enough to shift the angle of his penis.

[Brandye]

The only thing in the vagina he could be hitting would be your cervix. Generally, as we become aroused our vaginas balloon and limit the chance of this happening. All of us have it occur once in a while and it can be a surprise. Not usually damaging and is more common when you are not especially aroused.

The other possibility is that, through layers of tissue, he is actually hitting an ovary. This pain can be excruciating. It is exactly the female analogy to a man being kicked in the balls.

Whichever, you and your partner need to discuss what is happening and what you will each do to avoid this. Else you will become fearful of sex.

G-Spot stimulation is a rather sophisticated technique that too many people talk about without the faintest idea of what they are doing. There are stickies on this topic. Read them in Sexual Health: Women and the other woman's forum.