anal health sex questions (lots of questions)

[ShinigamiDanny]

so im 20 years old and still kinda new to sex. how often is too much anal sex? how long does it take for the anal wall to revert back to its normal state after being streached? what are the risks of anal sex other then viral, bacerial, and stds? my girlfriend and i enjoy anal, but i dont want to do it to often to the point she is in dippers before she is 30. is that even posible or just a myth? is there a limitation to how often you can safely perform anal sex? once a week? month? every other month? also im about 10.3 inches long and i dont know if i should insert my entire self inside her, how far should i go? i dont want to rip her anal wall, or hurt her. is there a limit to vaganal sex as well? after she squirted we continued and she said it was starting to hurt, is that normal? how long is to long? some times we go at it for an hour and a half before she finishes is that normal? we usualy have sex daily, is that to often? mow many times a day is to much? sometimes we go for 4-6 rounds or just make love for the whole day and do nothing else at all. i may have alot of questions later. i have spent the last to days looking for answers and can not find any. please help me. thanx

[Brandye]

Please do a search on anal sex. This has been discussed in great detail including possible negative effects. After reading what is already here, questions for clarification will be appropriate.

If the specs you give here on your size and frequency and duration are even close to accurate, you will show up in the Guinness Book of Records in several categories.

No penis will ever penetrate my anus.

[ShinigamiDanny]

all i am asking is that : how much anal sex is too much anal sex? how often is too often? how deep is too deep? i dont want her to be in dippers before she is 30 and all i was wondering was how long it takes for the anal wall to revert to its normal state. also how much is too much vaganal sex and how long it takes for the vaganal wall to revet back to normal.
my size and duration are acurate, and its besides to point of the questions im asking. plus i know of people that last longer then me and are larger then i am.

[dancingdoc2]

There is anal play and anal intercourse, preferably in that order.

The anus and sphincters are designed to pass matter outward, not accept it going inward. Please read this article:

"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

The play helps condition these body parts in order to make the passage of larger items (dildo or other toy, penis) easier. Using lots and lots of lubrication and proceeding slowly using gentle pressure are keys.

The membranes are thinner than those of the vagina yet should not stretch permanently out of shape unless a fist or other large object are used regularly.

I do not have answers for your other questions; however, I also believe that the anus is not the place for a penis, covered and protected or not.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by ShinigamiDanny

my size and duration are acurate, and its besides to point of the questions im asking. plus i know of people that last longer then me and are larger then i am.

larger then you?
lol must breed em big around your area huh
are you sure you measured in inches ........ and not centimetres ? lol

[ShinigamiDanny]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

larger then you?
lol must breed em big around your area huh
are you sure you measured in inches ........ and not centimetres ? lol

ya, my best friend is a 1/2 inch bigger then i am, and his dad i gues got suergery and is 13 inches. but im not here to brag or anything, just wondering how far i am safely able to insert myself, and how regularly we can perform anal. i do prep her and all with anal play and we take it slow and she says she doesn't hert and all, but i just dont wanna put her in dippers, or cause long turm damage to her.

[ShinigamiDanny]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

There is anal play and anal intercourse, preferably in that order.

The anus and sphincters are designed to pass matter outward, not accept it going inward. Please read this article:

"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

The play helps condition these body parts in order to make the passage of larger items (dildo or other toy, penis) easier. Using lots and lots of lubrication and proceeding slowly using gentle pressure are keys.

The membranes are thinner than those of the vagina yet should not stretch permanently out of shape unless a fist or other large object are used regularly.

I do not have answers for your other questions; however, I also believe that the anus is not the place for a penis, covered and protected or not.

thanx dancingdoc2, this artical said alot. so i hope you are saying as long as im not performing anal with my fist on a regular basis (for the mater of fact ill never do that one) then we should be fine as long as im preping her for it, and it doen't hert. right?

[kenturahangel]

wow is post really did help my out with a previous question i was pondering thanks guys

[Brandye]

There is an old sticky somewhere where I laid out the medical facts for anal sex. In the long term, the least bad thing that will happen is she will develop hemorrhoids. The anus is a one way valve - designed to hold stuff in and then allow it to pass outwardly. We are simply not designed to have something the size of a penis enter us there.

[demonbuttercup]

Im still curious to see her wearing dippers :P
Diapers maybe?