Tightening and loosening up.

[newchris101]

Hey i have a girlfriend and im quite concerned.

She used to have sex with her ex all the time when they were still dating and shes only loose enough to fit one of my fingers inside of her.
They last had sex about 4 months b4 we got together in an intimate way.

So anyway my penis is about 2 to 2 and a half times as wide as that one finger... so am i going to harm her or anything?

And should i be proud? does that mean that my penis is bigger than his? how long does it take to tighten up? btw the second question was a joke but answer it anyway

[Brandye]

The female body just does not work that way. The only ways that the vaginal capacity changes much are childbirth, surgery or a large weight gain.

There is something else going on besides her being out of practice - probably in either her head or yours. And except for very extreme cases women simply do not care about size.

[newchris101]

true but i mean i dont really know whether my penis will fit. and im just saying am i not supposed to feel weird about her having had sex before i mean we are only 16

[Brandye]

Your feeling weird is irrelevant to what your perceive as your not being able to fit.

Your time would be better spent learning how to write in complete sentences rather than in perseverating on how you feel about women who have had sex with others.

[dancingdoc2]

Please look at the Index and read those articles on:

* I'm Ready for SEX! (or am I?) I really want to do it.

* What Can I/We Do To Prepare For First Time Intercourse?
Read the section in orange print

* HELP! S/He is more EXPERIENCED! To which I say:

* For Boys Only- A Matter of Size (Regarding your penis)