Masturbation

[Kellz]

I'm 16 and i wanted to know if masturbation can take your virginity >.<?

[Mr. Saint]

No, defiantly not. Losing your virginity is having sexual relations with some one else and masturbation is defined by doing it to your self. If you are a girl then it is possible to rupture the hymen through masturbation, but that does not mean you are not a virgin. You can also break it when doing a lot of sports, horseback riding, mountain biking and things like that. Take a look around the site, there is plenty of information about masturbation and virginity. Have fun and welcome to the site.

[dancingdoc2]

Mr. Saint is correct. Masturbation is simply an act of stimulating yourself in order to reduce sexual tension and/or to enjoy the pleasure of it all.

A loss of virginity used to be defined as not having an intact hymen as it was presumed that to break it meant the woman had to have had intercourse. This may have been the standard by which her status was determined generations ago when women were far less physically active. Nowadays, the hymen can erode away over the course of a young girls life by participating in sports or exercising heavily.

A man's status was taken at face value by his word. Nowadays, we also take a woman's word for being a virgin or not. However, having said that, in some Eastern cultures the old rules still apply and if her hymen was broken from normal activities and not from intercourse, it was presumed that she was not telling the truth and so would be shunned by both family and community for life. So much for unrealistic expectations and religious values.

Male or female, masturbate to your heart's content, whether for the pure enjoyment of it or to manage stress and sexual tension.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

[Kellz]

Originally Posted by Mr. Saint

No, defiantly not. Losing your virginity is having sexual relations with some one else and masturbation is defined by doing it to your self. If you are a girl then it is possible to rupture the hymen through masturbation, but that does not mean you are not a virgin. You can also break it when doing a lot of sports, horseback riding, mountain biking and things like that. Take a look around the site, there is plenty of information about masturbation and virginity. Have fun and welcome to the site.

Thank you just wanted to make sure cause I'm suppose to go to the doctor and my mom would freak

And to The other person thank you also :] And do they really still stone people :/? if they do they should really do something about that

[dancingdoc2]

Do you masturbate? I assume so because of your question, yet, how would any of us know for certain?

Hymens come in a variety of shapes, sizes, whole patterns, and thickness'. A doctor or nurse cannot tell whether a hymen eroded away naturally, was torn from riding horseback, playing a sport, using a Tampon, or, is just naturally tiny.

Many young girls do not finger the vagina when masturbating. If you do, fine, because in and around the opening are many sensitive nerve endings that feel good to touch when very aroused. If you break your hymen intentionally or not, who will know how unless you tell.

More importantly, what is between you and your doctor stays between the two of you unless there is some important medical concern. The state of your virginity is not something s/he will share with a parent.

Bottom line: Until a penis is inserted into your vagina, you are and will continue to be a virgin. (Fingers, dildos and other toys do not count.)

[Kellz]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

Do you masturbate? I assume so because of your question, yet, how would any of us know for certain?

Hymens come in a variety of shapes, sizes, whole patterns, and thickness'. A doctor or nurse cannot tell whether a hymen eroded away naturally, was torn from riding horseback, playing a sport, using a Tampon, or, is just naturally tiny.

Many young girls do not finger the vagina when masturbating. If you do, fine, because in and around the opening are many sensitive nerve endings that feel good to touch when very aroused. If you break your hymen intentionally or not, who will know how unless you tell.

More importantly, what is between you and your doctor stays between the two of you unless there is some important medical concern. The state of your virginity is not something s/he will share with a parent.

Bottom line: Until a penis is inserted into your vagina, you are and will continue to be a virgin. (Fingers, dildos and other toys do not count.)

Sweet Means I dunt have to worry THANK YOU Yeah i do masturbate >.>
But i was worried i wouldnt be a Virgin anymore =(

[CLVR-HNDS_GUY]

masturbating for a female helps you understand what you like and dont like when your aroused and wanting to do it for the first time with the right guy
its a funny issue with men and females, i believe everyone does it of some sort
being a guy and knowing the female does masturbate can be a turn on to some guys
its your personal world to having fun with out getting pregnant or something else

[dancingdoc2]

Here is a partial copy of a reply from a year and a half ago:

What are the effects of masturbation happening everyday for a few years including cumming?

Isn't cumming the point?

Here is a copy of a reply I posted last November: {2006)

"For both boys and girls, learning to masturbate to climax helps establish the connections between the millions of sensitive nerve endings in the skin and the pleasure center in the brain. It is a natural part of our maturation. Mother Nature gives us the pleasure center in the brain, the nerve endings, and, the autonomic nervous system that transmits the signals back and forth, yet through some twist of evolution the connects are not established. Practice is how this is accomplished. Boys do this rather matter-of-factly right out of puberty while girls often begin later, if at all.

So, the main reason a girl should masturbate is to transmute from a pre-orgasmic entity into an orgasmic being.

Other benefits to masturbating to climax are:
a) stress relief
* sexual
* emotional
* physical

b) as an aid to falling asleep

c) relieving menstrual cramps

d) strengthens the body's immune system and helps
build resistance to common infections

e) stimulates the body to release mood elevating endorphins

f) reduces yeast infections

g) strengthens the pelvic muscles

h) masturbation provides an excellent cardiovascular workout!

i) increases sexual self awareness"

...and in a follow-up post, noting that masturbation is also "FUN"!

Enjoy,
-Doc

[donutsunny]

does too much masturbation make it harder to get orgasm. I started it when i was much younger. i feel like its harder for me to get orgasm, now, i think i cant reach orgasm everytime I masturbate when i use my hands or fingers but when i use sex toys, i get orgasm quickly. when he goes down on me, i hardly feel anything, and sometime it hurts a little bit. is it because he is too hard or because of me? I really want to enjoy it but it seems difficult. can anyone helps me.

[CLVR-HNDS_GUY]

if you masturbate everyday it doesnt feel as good if done everyday, if you leave it for a few days it does feel better, i know its like that being a guy and quite sure it would be the same for a female.
he could be being a bit rough on you, just have to talk to him and say he has hurt you and maybe show him a few things to it feels better for you
are you doing alot of kissing before he touches you down there and him touching you all over