silent orgasms

[bubblegum90]

Whenever i orgasm i am completely silent except for my breathing (which isn't loud it just changes). I don't have to hold back sound because i dont even have the desire to make sound. Im a virgin right now (i orgasm from masturbating) but im worried that around a guy i wont be able to either...and thats bad. please help. any tips, suggestions, or words of comfort?

[dancingdoc2]

Hello, and welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating.

> Im a virgin right now (i orgasm from masturbating) but im worried that around > a guy i wont be able to either...and thats bad.

What is bad, that you won't be able to remain quiet? Why is that bad? Nothing in sex is bad unless it is illegal, dangerous, or fattening. If you do not desire to moan, groan, yip, yipe, yell, or exclaim, then that is you and you are just fine. Had I to offer a guess, it would be that as you mature and become more comfortable with in your skin, are alone and without fear of discovery or interruption that you may very well begin to vocalize to one extent or another. If you do, fine. If you never do, fine.

Simply be yourself, enjoy the moment, focus on each other and not the events. Making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other. It is a partnership. Explore and learn together. There is no one single recipe that suits every occasion. Each occasion is different and each event is different.

[MollyBoston]

Don't worry about it all! All this means is that you're a good neighbor. The women in porn who're always screaming bloody murder are exaggerating (and not acting very well). I'm often completely silent too.

[Brandye]

In more than thirty years as sexually active, I doubt that I have ever emitted more than a gasp or groan. The orgasm requires energy; I do not want to waste energy screaming. If a partner does not accept, there are screamers available.

[curious_woman]

I'm a huge moaner. I'm very loud, so loud my partner has to kiss me and tell me to shh when we're having sex or his brother/parents will here. But when I come I kinda hold my breath in and if I make noise its just a gasp. I don't think it makes a difference, the guy(or girl) will be happy they made you come.

[Alspals69]

i've been with both quiet and loud ladies. I do have a preference for some noise... but do you know what? Its not the most important thing. Far more important is sharing such fun with someone i care about.

So don't worry!