How to masturbate?

[blondiegurl09]

I'm only 15...and when I was younger I was touched by people. I know it was wrong, but it felt so good. So as I got older, about 13, I started touching myself. Anyways...I have a friend with a dildo that I've used before, but she moved...and now I don't use it. When I get really horny and try to masturbate, my fingers don't slide all the way down to my hole...and I have no idea on what else to use and stuff, I know this sounds all lame and stuff, but I love vibrations on my clit and ect...but yeah, I don't know what to use for all this stuff...and I would go out and buy dildos, but I don't have the money, and plus I'm underage. And I know my mom wouldn't buy the stuff for me because then she would go all freaky on me and call me a slut. So, help, please?

[Maribelle]

Hi there! 1st of all, from one survivor of childhood sexual abuse to another, I want to tell you that I think it's great you're pleasuring yourself in safe ways!!! I'm a mom now myself, but I won't try to talk you into sharing any of this with yours for many reasons: for one thing, I only know as much about you as you're willing to type online.... But, masturbating is a very safe, healthy choice & you have every right to feel proud of making that choice -- I hope you continue to focus on this method rather than seeking pleasure from other people not only for the physical medical dangers, but also because of the psychological/emotional factor (being responsible for your own good feelings is a wonderful state of being) ANYWAY, sorry to ramble As I said, I'm a survivor of CSA too & at 26 years old I'm still having trouble with pleasing/pleasuring myself. 10 years ago I was making very risky decisions that I'm still paying for & at this point I'm having to re-learn a whole bunch of stuff.... The best I can say about masturbating is that you don't always have to cum -- it's just supposed to feel good, comfortable ... so it's all up to you -- just explore yourself & recognize what you enjoy, what you don't, get creative but be safe.... If you like to read there are a couple books I could recommend? Feel free to PM me if you want.

[Brandye]

Put "female masturbation" in google and you will find some good sites on the topic. We each have our favorite techniques. I generally use nothing bu my fingers but my sense is many, if not most, women these days use vibrators. I do not like vibrators that much.

Dildoes come in many forms - some are called candles, some carrots and my favorite is an old cologne bottle, long empty, that I got on my sixteenth birthday.

[demonbuttercup]

Also, some people suggest using an electric toothbrush... not the bristled side :P
to rub on the clit.. not for insertion

[Brandye]

Glad you clarified that, Demon! You gave me a great image of a well scrubbed vagina.

[demonbuttercup]

Originally Posted by Brandye

Glad you clarified that, Demon! You gave me a great image of a well scrubbed vagina.

LMAO

Cleanliness is next to Godliness!

[a.m.h.i.]

I know this is kind of a weird suggestion, but I once tried this with a bi friend of mine who also really loved it...

ice cubes.

[Brandye]

That suggestion comes up from time time and I believe you. Just do not try to jam them into me!

[brad]

wats dat breast

[Brandye]

Brad this forum is for women only. Please do not post.