how do I go for it

[amy_69]

I am a 29 year old married white female and I have always loved men but lately I find myself fantisizing about one of my girlfriends. I have never been with another woman but I want to taste her coochie really bad. nobody knows. not even my husband. how can I bring it up to her? I would just be happy with going down on her . it's driving me crazy. amy

[Brandye]

Tell her. You can wonder forever but never whether or not she is receptive. Simply something like, "mary, I find you really appealing." The you are talking about it. There is a risk that you will lose a friend.

We believe that nearly a third of all married women do have some sexual contact with another woman. The data are difficult to gather. My guess is that well over half of us experience curiousity.