Embarassing problem

[tara78]

This is such an embarassing problem, sex used to be great but 5 years ago i started having what they call "fanny farts" and since then i haven't had sex with anyone. It bothered me for a while but like they say "what you don't get you don't miss"
Anyway i've just started seeing someone (as most of my other relationships have ended before the bedroom.) i'm so scared it'll happen again. I desperatly need some advice, how to stop it, as i really want to get back to enjoying sex again.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

[demonbuttercup]

Do you mean vagina farts?
Ive heard them called Queefs,lol who comes up w/ these names?
anyhow, I get those too sometimes it just depends on what position I am in. If I am in doggy and my bum is way up in the air... It always happens.
I dont think it has ever happened when I am on top... so maybe try that.
It happens b/c the guy is pulling out pretty far and forcing air back into the vagina.
I mean it is kind of embarrassing, but I ususally just try to laugh it off.

[Buffy_Lynn]

Really, it happens to the best of us. When it happens to me, Im mortafied. But my boyfriend, who is very sweet, acts as if nothing has happend or reassures me it's no big deal.

Any real man would just laugh it off with you, or if you're embarrassed, simply ignore it.

[sexy_angel]

yeah i agree....it tends to happen mostly in doggy style.... the first time i was mortified too and wen my bf started laughing i started laughing too and started making more noises as a result!!! which didn't really help. but anyway i explained that they weren't farts they were called queefs. and he was like "huh. ok never heard about them" and just laughed and wanted to keep going. so no big deal. but as they said before....avoid doggy style if u'd rather it doesn't happen....or at least wait till you're a bit more comfortable with your b/f.

[tara78]

Thank you for all the help guys. I'll avoid doggy!!

I'll get us both to wear earplugs, that way we won't hear a thing! might start a new trend!!

[itsasecret]

I've had a problem with this too. It started after I had a baby 2 yrs ago. I sometimes use a cream called Like a Virgin and that helps to tighten me up so air doesnt get in. I also am careful how he pulls out. If I arc my back rather than arching it after doggystyle it is generally not an issue. Just a couple of tips I've picked up over the past years.

[Maribelle]

My last partner is an OBGYN -- it's completely normal & happens to everyone at some point....

FUNNY STORY:

• Some weeks ago he wanted to shave me, so I got on all 4s with my back arched to give him the best view & easiest maneuverability to shave me. Suddenly I just started giggling. When I laughed I "queefed" & that made me laugh more which make me "queef" more & on & on it went in a hilariously embarrassing cycle I was plum worn out with aching ribs by the time we were done with that hair cut!

[ae52005]

Don't worry about it! I have those vaginal farts, plus sometimes if we're sweaty during missionary our chests "fart" from being wet and pushing on and off each other. It's just something that can lighten sex up and add some humor. I'd say laugh about it rather than ignore it.