how do i ask him for oral?

[bunny_whore]

i have gave my boyf oral sex 7 times....i love doing it, it feels really good, BUT

the first time i did it on him first, then after i while he said "now i'll return the favor" and he licked me out for a very short time (well the reason it woz so short woz because he really had to go home) it felt so good...his tongue touching every part of me, but this was months ago, i've only had oral from him once, and i've gave it to him 7 times....he fingers me really well all the time and this usually brings me to orgasm so its not like he's neglecting me or anything.
how do i ask him for more oral without him feeling pressurized?

[sakura]

just ask, and give him encouragement.

say,

i really like it when you go down on me, it feels so good when you do ..... to me.
mabey he'll get thi hint, and if not.. say.. could you do that to me now?

or mabey suggest to try the 69 position.

Good luck.

but remember, if you dont ask, you dont get.


Sakura

[Brandye]

Tell him how good it was and ask for more.

[bunny_whore]

thanks for the advice =D

but im worried maybe he doesnt like giving me it....is there any way i can make it more enjoyable for him (apart from showing him that i love it when he does it)?

[Buffy_Lynn]

This may sound harsh, but one of my general rules is that, if you dont give, dont expect to recieve. (Unless he really doesnt like to do it, I dont care I love both giving and recieving oral). If you think he doesnt like the taste, try a flavoured lubricant. Stay away from foods, as some can cause yeast infections.

But as the above posts say, just ask for it.

[bunny_whore]

buffy lynn u make a good point, but im worried that if he doesnt like it he will feel really pressurized into doing it and maybe refuse....
we hardly ever have long undisturbed love sessions (lol, thsi sounded better in my head) because we both live with our parents (we are both 17 and leave skool next year), so the times we do have sexual activites are really special...

[Buffy_Lynn]

I know what you're saying. I dont turn 18 for a few months yet and my boyfriend and I both still live with our parents. But, we've been dating for almost 2 years and have become pretty creative with our lovemaking. (I refuse to always resort to having sex in the tiny backseat of his car).

Just be sure when you're with him to tell him how much you enjoyed it and would love it if he would do it again. Be sure to mention if he doesnt like it, there's no pressure. Like I said, there are flavoured lubricants for oral sex and they can be used on both your boyfriend and you. (I suprised my boyfriend and bought some. He says he loves my taste and we rarely use it. I like to use it on him occationaly because it makes him taste like watermelons. haha.)

I would suggest perhaps finding the time to be intimite. Now that is summer holidays (yay) do either of your parents work during the day? If so, maybe invite him over, or go over to his house and spend time alone together. (I hope this helps with the lack of privacy you mentioned).

I wish you the best

[bunny_whore]

thanks for the advice...i will try to find some flavoured lube

i know you said do either of your parents work during the day, YES!
i live with my mum, she woz at work all this week, and shes working friday of next week, i found this out a few days ago and told my boyf, i said
"Mike u HAVE to come over to my house this week!"
(i said this while practicaly bouncing off the walls with excitment lol) but to my horror he said "sorry i cant, my parents are forcing me to go on holiday with them this week" and im really really annoyed...we would of had 9 hours in my house alone together dammit....
but hopefully he will be free next friday....if he's not, shes at work on the 26th, 27th, and the 28th of july.....so he's bound to be free on one of those days....

oh and this is partly to do with my other thread in chick chat...he still hasnt had an orgasm....
im really gonna try hard the next time i see him....
this might sound weird, but its kinda making me miserable...the fact i've never gave him one =[

[Luke]

bunny whore, I'm experiencing the opposite with my fiance.I love to do oral on her, but she can't return the favor to me.I guess it just grosses her out.She kind of feel's guilty about it,but I told her don't worry about it.I still do oral all the time to her though,she love's it and I enjoy doing it,she orgasm's all the time from it.She's just moved on to hand job's which I really like and she can do them really,really well.So I'm not complaining at all.

[Brandye]

Luke, you are in Chick Chat. This is women only.