plz read, i know there are threads with simalar issues, but he still won't come

[bunny_whore]

I've been looking at this website for months, and realized i needed to become a member to post on the threads....
i've read and tested every piece of advice on this site about giving men blowjobs, but my guy still won't come, he gets really turned on, and he makes me orgasm, but i can't seem to make him come, we have been with eachother for 6 months and i love him dearly, but its just really bugging me that he won't come, we are both still virgins, and want to have sex very soon, but i want to make him come via oral before that....
any advice would be very appriciated
thankyou

[Brandye]

How about when you give him a handjob?

Nothing can really be said definitively. Some men come quickly orally and slowly vaginally. Some are the opposite. I do not know why and have never found a scientific reason.

If mixing up oral and digital techniques do not get him there, he may have some hangups that even he is unaware of. With all the sexual taboos some people grow up with, anything is possible.

Let him lie back and relax and then you pull out all the stops with whatever tricks you have. Emphasize that nothing is expected of him; you just want to give him pleasure.

[bunny_whore]

thanks for the advice =D

i got a tube of K-Y lube, would that be good for giving him a pleasurable handjob?

[Brandye]

Sure. Try it with rubber gloves on.

[Explorer]

I also have broblem cumming by hand or oral stimulation.

Try laying on your bed behind him, spooning, and give him a handjob. I love that. Or just go on to the intercourse. In my opinion there is no point in delaying that if you are both fully developed and you make sure you don't get pregnant.

[Millie]

Hey sweetie!
I found that guys love to tell you exactly what to do durning a blow job.
Try it, it's a real turn on for both of us.
Good luck!
Don't sweat the little things.

[cheryl2oo6]

i hav tis problem too. my bf won't come, i've tried everytin!hes never come thru oral with anyone...should i jus give up?!

[_sexybitch_]

hey ppl. i had ths problem too until a few weeks ago! then out of the blue...he came. i was soooooooo happy (i know i sound stupid) but i felt good cos i feel that i can satisfy him thru oral alone. i've noticed that the...hm how can i put this...when hes laying on the bed n ur in between his legs, the back ov the head (ov the penis) if u lick that rllyyyyyyyy slow...it speeds fings up a bit! n also i mostly concentrate on the hed n he cums within 5-6 mins.try it!

[ekkotey]

I know this is a female forum but I am a curious guy. I want to know what women think so I can please them. I have the same problem as most of the guys you have talked about. For me, I found the solution.

It can be his focus & your performance. The best thing is let him direct you. We are built differently and therefore react differently. The pornos aren't really good for learning how to give head.

For a guy, let him direct you. Ask him to close his eyes and tell you how he would want you to do it. Listen real close and imagine yourself doing it or better yet do it as he is telling you.

Also, basic is good. Don't try to do all the tricks you heard of. _sexybitch_ put it best. Those are the real simple things. Fantasy is what makes us cum, not always the act but the buildup. Its basic foreplay. Up and down, slowly is best. When done fast, most guys loose feeling. I know I do. Saliva is great.

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[Brandye]

Ekkotey get the hell out of Chick Chat and stay out. Else you will be banned from the Board!!