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[banana]

got a quick question 4 ya girls.. recentli i had sex wid ma bf and i didnt bleed, he fingered me b4 on a few occasions but dat was it. i heard dat we r supose 2 bleed wen have sex 4 da 1st time, which in ma case didnt happen??is it normal not 2 bleed da 1st tym??

[Brandye]

First, please use standard English. Not everyone here is a native speaker and your post is difficult to read.

In the modern world, I doubt that half of all women bleed noticeably. Bleeding is normal; not bleeding is normal. I did not.

[Revirginated]

Obviously, every woman is probably different in this regard. Some of my friends have reported little/no pain or bleeding, some have said it was significant. I don't know if a hymen can be ruptured just by a finger. It doesn't seem like it would have the necessary circumference.

Any pain/bleeding is usually magnified by a bad lover with poor technique. Hopefully, men are not as ignorant about defloration as they used to be.

I've never found a satisfactory answer/reason for the existence of the hymen either..

[banana]

Originally Posted by Brandye

First, please use standard English. Not everyone here is a native speaker and your post is difficult to read.

In the modern world, I doubt that half of all women bleed noticeably. Bleeding is normal; not bleeding is normal. I did not.

Ok sorry about the language i used, i wasnt thinking when i was writing it. Anyways thanks for your reply, it helped to know that its normal as i was stressing out thinking there was something wrong with me, as this hasnt happen to anyone i know.

[Lackadaisical]

I broke my hymen when i was eight and accidentally flopped down a bad way and somehow kicked myself in the vagina (which hurts soooo much, by the way). I've never understood it...but there was blood, and there's no other point in my life that I know of which could have broken it, soo...

[Revirginated]

I'm always slightly amused by men's stories of being hit in the balls or whatever. Like they are the only ones.

Ever caught a fast ball on the mons? Yikes!!