G-spot Rocks the G-spot

[taylor_action]

Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months, and the sex is great, plenty o' orgasms etc. BUT he keeps trying to give me a G-spot orgasm, and everything is going well, and it's wicked and intense but my problem is that i just can't seem to complete the whole "transaction" and actually achieve a mind blowing g-spot orgasm, I'm so close, is there anything I can to to finally let it go?
Imagine having the best sex of your life and being not able to get off completely, It's getting frustrating!

[Brandye]

A year or so ago I posted a long one on the controversial G-Spot. See the Golden Posts. There is no assurance that such a spot exists. It is more likely that what is happening is that a ligament in the area is being moved and caused a subtle but intense stimulation of the clitoris.

My g/f and I spent hours, literally and over time, locating each others. We are both medical professionals. Relatively few women even do the search and even fewer find the spot. The typical late adolescent male is hardly the expert to do the locating. Read the sites, learn the mechanics, accept what you read with a grain of salt, spend lots of timing running to the bathroon with just a few drops, get frustrated, drive him nuts, think both of you are incompetent and maybe you will find it. Or, simply enjoy what is seemingly a satisfying sex life and if you find it sometime, that is a bonus.

Men imposing their "skills" on our bodies is not the key to sexual satisfaction.

[taylor_action]

Well the thing is, I'm very certain we've found it, without (or even being near it!) clitoral stimulation at all, it's very intense, I feel like I have to pee and bear down, and I want to explode, but no such luck. Once he found it, he REALLY found it.
Unless that's not it and I have no idea..!

[Brandye]

Sounds like it. At the point of orgasm, women prefer to continue doing exactly what has been being done through the orgasm. Men are quite different. If he keeps a steady rhythm of his massaging, that should help.

[taylor_action]

haha pretty good for an adolecent 20 yr old male..I suppose..Well I'll tell him to keep going, maybe eventually I'll have one, but i just don't know what to do, what does it feel like right before, sometimes it's so intense i can't stand it and have to like push him away.
god I'm clueless, I looked in the "pleasing her" g-spot thread and no help for my problem there.
-taylor

[Brandye]

Try a google search on "G-Spot" and you may find something useful.

It does become very intense. Eva and I each chickened out a few times before getting there. A more delicate touch is required, the closer you come.