trouble finishing

[benyboi]

So Im 22yo male and everything works as it should. If I masterbate its no problem to climax and finish. But, when I have sex I can stay hard for as long as I want (yes its true hours have past befor) but I can never finish. Neither by vaginal or oral. I can stimulate my self during to expidite the job but still they always feal its there falt if I dont cum. Any sugestions??? For as much fun it is to satisfy her I tend to loose intrest if I cant do it my self

Thanks for any advice.

[Brandye]

Talk to her about it. Then, with her consent and after her satisfaction, lay back and let her work her female skills on you. May be by hand or mouth or whatever but I suspect she will find a way.

Masturbation by hand stimulates the penis more than the mucuous membrane of the mouth or vagina. Her performing vigourous hand manipulation will likely work. Once you get your response transferred to her, things will improve.

[Guitar Guy]

I have that problem too sometimes when my gf and i have sex. Sometimes I'm able to go off in 10 minutes, and other times it takes around an hour. One key thing is not be worried or get frustrated. Just focus on your partner and realize that it will happen eventually. There have been times as well where I've been unable to climax during sex, but I've come to realize that you never know how long it will take you to climax during sex. Just enjoy the time you have and if you are tired, take a break for about a half an hour then go back to it and see what happens.

[terey]

The speed or slowness has alot to do with how aroused you are before, and durring sexual intercourse. Males tend to be sight, and touch oriented that is why they have a tendency to watch or look at porn more often then our counter parts, where they (women) are more stimulated by mental thoughts, and feelings brought up from thier thoughts. Fact is that 8 of 10 readers are women, 60% of books sold have to do with love , life and deception of some nature. Some guys refer to some form of pain inflection of pain to control climax i.e.. pulling or pinching testical skin. For over all health I woud encourage you to expand you mind instead of inflecting pain to enhance your staying power.