Wanking my virgin penis

[johnnymac57]

I wank about 40-45 times a month, probably averaging 1,3 times per day. I kneel on a cushion in front of my computer and either wank over nude photos or sex videos. I am a virgin who has never even had a girlfriend before ( 29 )

Questions:

Am I addicted to masturbating?

Does masturbating cause Premature ejaculation?

Can it help protect against prostate cancer?

I wish I could give it up and experience a normal loving relationship with a woman, but I have never had a girlfriend in my life, so I don't think that it is a realistic option at the moment.

It is actually very pathetic to realize that my hand and my foam cylinder might turn out to be my only sexual partners in this world.

Prostitutes have been suggested as an option, but I feel that it would make me even emptier inside.

I have been told to stop sulking and be more confident, but how can I be confident in my situation, I am scared shitless?

[Ell]

When you go out why don't you try doing a little acting? Act as though you are a very confident person. And you shouldn't be afraid of asking out alot of women.... the more you ask the better your chances are. If you only ask out 1 woman & she says no then you haven't gained any thing but, If you ask out 10 women & 4 say yes, wouldn't the other rejections be worth it? I mean the worst thing they can say is no. Or you could have a friend or family member set you up with someone. Hope this helps

[johnnymac57]

Originally Posted by Ell

When you go out why don't you try doing a little acting? Act as though you are a very confident person. And you shouldn't be afraid of asking out alot of women.... the more you ask the better your chances are. If you only ask out 1 woman & she says no then you haven't gained any thing but, If you ask out 10 women & 4 say yes, wouldn't the other rejections be worth it? I mean the worst thing they can say is no. Or you could have a friend or family member set you up with someone. Hope this helps

Thanks,yes I get rejected once and then hide away for 6 months. My other friends get rejected 20 times in one night and then come right on the 21st time. I need to learn that.

Do you think I wank too much?

[YHeloThar]

Yes you jerk off too much and it's letting you maintain being a loser forever.

You have friends, that's a decent start, go out with them and forget how dumb you look, maybe even have a couple drinks (a COUPLE) to give yourself some fake courage and just go for all the interactions possible.

You'll get over the rejections pretty quick if you come away with even a couple girls msn contacts or something. And then your goal should be to be able to do this sober, in broad daylight.

[maupassant]

Get in there and ask!! if you don't buy a raffle ticket you cannot win!!

[Buck Naked]

Have you ever thought of a matchmaking site? I think these sites do have merit. My brother has trouble meeting women due to the job he has and he's been flirting with the idea of putting his profile on one. Just a thought.

[Ell]

Originally Posted by johnnymac57

Thanks,yes I get rejected once and then hide away for 6 months. My other friends get rejected 20 times in one night and then come right on the 21st time. I need to learn that.

Do you think I wank too much?

In my opinion yes, but as long as it's not interfering with your personal life then it's not a problem. But if you feel like it's keeping you from finding someone, try to cut down on the frequency.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by johnnymac57

I wank about 40-45 times a month, probably averaging 1,3 times per day. I kneel on a cushion in front of my computer and either wank over nude photos or sex videos. I am a virgin who has never even had a girlfriend before ( 29 )

Questions:

Am I addicted to masturbating?

The answer to this question is whether or not the time you take to masturbate and the number of times you do it in a day interferes with work, chores, or other obligations. If the answer is "yes", then addicted or not, you are at least doing it too much.

As for how many times is OK, this has been answered in the following article listed in the Index. I'm surprised you are not looking for answers there.



Boys and Masturbation / Got questions?

Does masturbating cause Premature ejaculation?

No. PE is generally the result of becoming aroused to a much greater extent than is usually the case when masturbating. This occurs when in the company of a partner and with whom we have an emotional connection.

Can it help protect against prostate cancer?

Yes and no. Not generally with young men in whose cases manifest themselves later in life. Yes, in older men. Do a Google search and see what turns up.

I wish I could give it up and experience a normal loving relationship with a woman, but I have never had a girlfriend in my life, so I don't think that it is a realistic option at the moment.

There is nothing wrong with masturbation. I really wish you'd do some on-site research. Learn what the benefits are to masturbating.

It is actually very pathetic to realize that my hand and my foam cylinder might turn out to be my only sexual partners in this world.

This has been discussed and answered many times for you. Nothing is going to change in your life until you get off your duff, take charge, and make positive changes. Playing this broken record is becoming old.

Prostitutes have been suggested as an option, but I feel that it would make me even emptier inside.

Probably true.

I have been told to stop sulking and be more confident, but how can I be confident in my situation, I am scared shitless?

By acting the part of the character you wish to portray.

> My other friends get rejected 20 times in one night and then come right on the 21st time. I need to learn that.

You already know that! Commissioned sales people get rejected all the time, yet all they need is one "yes" in order to put food on the table. If a sales person got one "no" from a customer and went off in a corner with his tail between his legs, he'd go broke by the end of the week.

[johnnymac57]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

By acting the part of the character you wish to portray.

> My other friends get rejected 20 times in one night and then come right on the 21st time. I need to learn that.

You already know that! Commissioned sales people get rejected all the time, yet all they need is one "yes" in order to put food on the table. If a sales person got one "no" from a customer and went off in a corner with his tail between his legs, he'd go broke by the end of the week.

I did go on a date with this Indian Woman, she is also 29, but I think I am stuck in the "friend zone", that can't be good!

[johnnymac57]

Originally Posted by Ell

In my opinion yes, but as long as it's not interfering with your personal life then it's not a problem. But if you feel like it's keeping you from finding someone, try to cut down on the frequency.

How many times do you think I should aim to masturbate a month? I will try and adjust to your recommendation.