Wanking my virgin penis

[Ell]

Originally Posted by johnnymac57

How many times do you think I should aim to masturbate a month? I will try and adjust to your recommendation.

lol I don't know a specific number. Just try to reduce the number of times you masturbate a little at a time, until YOU feel that you have reached an acceptable amount. For example you could start off try doing it every other day, instead of everyday or whatever your more comfortable with.

[johnnymac57]

Originally Posted by Ell

lol I don't know a specific number. Just try to reduce the number of times you masturbate a little at a time, until YOU feel that you have reached an acceptable amount. For example you could start off try doing it every other day, instead of everyday or whatever your more comfortable with.

Do you masturbate? and if so how often?

[Ell]

Originally Posted by johnnymac57

Do you masturbate? and if so how often?

Well it's hard to put a number on it, but If my hubby is out of town for two weeks, I may do it 5 times during that two week period. But everyone is different what may be an appropriate amount for me may not be enough for you. You are the only person who can decide what is appropriate for you

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by johnnymac57

I did go on a date with this Indian Woman, she is also 29, but I think I am stuck in the "friend zone", that can't be good!

I guess this depends upon your point of view. I do not know a lot of people who have a lot of friends. A couple of us were discussing this at our neighborhood block party on the 4th and agreed that we would like more "friends".

Although she may not be a person you want to continue dating, new friends can be added to your network of those family, friends, and coworkers, you have already looking on your behalf for some suitable women to date. Now, this can be good!

I am glad you went on a date. So it did not pan out for the long term. This is what dating is all about, meeting and going out with lots of different people over time. Now, go find the next person and try again.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by johnnymac57

Do you masturbate? and if so how often?

Men and women masturbate for different reasons and typically women do not do it as frequently as men. The question is irrelevant because what is desirable or needed by one individual, male or female, is not what is required for another. What is "normal" is what is right for the individual as has been explained in several recent threads and one of the articles.

Johnny, if--
A. masturbation does not interfere with your daily life then how many times you do it is fine
B. if you attempt to do it too much in a single day your body will cry "uncle" and refuse to respond for several hour
C. some fellas masturbate once a week or so, others once every few days, others every couple of days; and, some of us masturbate daily or multiple times a day depending upon need and desire. Read the article.

There is no one right number. The number changes based upon stress, sexual tension, and an interest in just feeling good.

Originally Posted by johnnymac57

Does masturbating cause Premature ejaculation?

Guys do not get as highly aroused when home alone taking matters into their own hands as they become when in the presence of a partner. Because we usually become excited to a greater extent, our nerves become much more sensitive and reactive. Therein lies the cause of PE. For more on this topic please read this article:

Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation

[Ell]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

OH, come on Johnny and Ell, men and women masturbate for different reasons and typically women do not do it as frequently as men. The question is irrelevant because what is desirable or needed by one individual, male or female, is not what is required for another. What is "normal" is what is right for the individual as has been explained in several recent threads and one of the articles.

Johnny, if--
A. masturbation does not interfere with your daily life then how many times you do it is fine
B. if you attempt to do it too much in a single day your body will cry "uncle" and refuse to respond for several hour
C. some fellas masturbate once a week or so, others once every few days, others every couple of days; and, some of us masturbate daily or multiple times a day depending upon need and desire. Read the article.

There is no one right number. The number changes based upon stress, sexual tension, and an interest in just feeling good.



Guys do not get as highly aroused when home alone taking matters into their own hands as they become when in the presence of a partner. Because we usually become excited to a greater extent, our nerves become much more sensitive and reactive. Therein lies the cause of PE. For more on this topic please read this article:

Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation

Me? lol what did i do??? I said that everyone is different & what works for me probably will not work for him. He didn't seem to get the previous post so I was trying to explain to him, that he is the only person who can decide what is appropriate for him.

[dancingdoc2]

MY HUMBLE APPOLOGY, Ell. The third time is the charm. I read something different into your comment the first two times I looked at it and replied accordingly.

Your answer to Johnny is a good one. Mine to you was inappropriate based upon what I thought I read. Please forgive my shortsightedness and rush to judgment.

[Ell]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

MY HUMBLE APPOLOGY, Ell. The third time is the charm. I read something different into your comment the first two times I looked at it and replied accordingly.

Your answer to Johnny is a good one. Mine to you was inappropriate based upon what I thought I read. Please forgive my shortsightedness and rush to judgment.

No apology necessary Doc, I wasn't offended

[spaced]

Well Johnny, I tend to make it a point to have a wank first thing in the morning and last thing before going to sleep. That's twice a day at MINIMUM. The upside to it is that I'm usually not all horned up throughout the day, and can easily focus on life without letting the fact that I'm a hormone-enraged male on the prowl get in the way. As others have said, as long as it's not interfering then there isn't a problem, just do what works best for you. I think my twice a day is a bit excessive compared to what others have said, but it doesn't interfere with anything and it certainly doesn't hurt and I'm not worn raw constantly...

Being "Just Friends" with a woman is perfectly fine, not all relationships need to be sexual in nature. I have several female friends that I'm very proud to call friends, and not lovers or fuckbuddies. I'm also probably quite different than you in that I make friends with women very easily. It's easy to do since I do it NOT expecting sex. When expectations are thrown in the mix, you will be disappointed and you'll be disappointed FREQUENTLY. If you don't expect anything, you'll be pleasantly surprised when something actually happens.

Good luck, and just be yourself. Nobody likes fake people. Booze doesn't hurt either, but beware that most bars are horrible places to meet people (they are, however, great to take a bunch of friends to).