Lossing erection when foreskin pulled back

[martinsex101]

Hi,

When I pull my pennis foreskin back and try to insert into my girlfriend vagina I am loosing my erection and couldn't able to go very deep ...since it is not too hard I am facing serieous problem in ejaculation ...still I try to ejaculate but most of my sperm stay outside her vagina...we are serioulsy trying to have baby from last 1.5 yrs...What I observed is when I do masturbation by standing on the floor I get good erection and goes well without pulling my foreskin back and I enjoy the climax ....If I pull my foreskin back at erection and try to masturbate I am loosing erection when I touch shaft of my penis during masturbation movement and my penis will be in hung position (not too hard).

Similarly when I am trying to Insert my penis by pulling my foreskin back into vagina..my pennis goes inside with erection and looses erection in short time and gets soft too early ...it makes my penis shaft too soft and at this moment when I try to ejaculate,most of the sperm is staying outside of the vagina...

Please help me ...

Regards
Martin

[dancingdoc2]

Hello Martin,

I understand from your story that you masturbate with the foreskin forward, yet when you attempt intercourse you retract it. My first question is why do you retract it?

My next question is how easily does your foreskin move back and forth?

What happens if you try to insert your penis without first retracting the foreskin? Is it then that you lose your erection?

A lot of guys do not retract their foreskin when having intercourse and let it slide back and forth while stroking if it is loose enough; however, if more sensitivity is desired when wearing a condom, it can be retracted prior to rolling on a condom.

I was separated from my foreskin in infancy so do not have a lot of information on what is best, having the foreskin retracted or not.

Comments welcome.

[martinsex101]

When I am doing masturbation...My foreskin do not go back too easily ...i try to pull back only during climax .....

During intercourse ..I feel very hard to insert without pulling back my foreskin so without my attention it goes back while trying to insert in intercourse...

During this time it goes well to some extent and immediately within few seconds ..My penis becomes soft after insertion ...this doesnot happen during masturbation...it remains strong atleast for 2minutes without pulling back my foreskin...

I tried musturbation by pulling my foreskin back ....I was not so excited as before ...as my hand was touching to shaft of my penis and it is slowly becoming soft... still I am able to ejaculate with little hardness......I do the same during instercourse but my penis becomes too soft and most of the sperm stays outside of vagina...

During masturbation my foreskin moves back and forth as per my hand movement..during intercourse this is not happening becase I am inserting with my foreskin pulled back ...

I am not able to insert my penis without retracting the foreskin because while insertion into vagina it is automatically pulling back(may be room is not enough)...I loose erection after insertion into vagina within few seconds...

I don't get a chance to back and forth while stroking because it is too soft to do that....I think this happens when I was going masturbation...

[dancingdoc2]

Thank you for the additional information, Martin.
Frankly I do not have a clue. I am going to have to think about this for a while.