need some advice please

[uzi9]

i have been having some trouble of last when its come to cuming...

it feels like i going to wii when i am about to come, which put me off and is soon followed by losing my erection.

I seem to ok when it comes to sex but when my gf trys oral sex or with her hands i just tense up b/c i know what will happen. I have to stop my gf or distract her so doesn't know what about to happen,

i have tried by myself a few times and sometimes i am able to cum normally and sometimes water or wii comes out....

any suggestions??

[nuttychick]

lol @ wii thanks you have made my Friday with that little giggle


Oh and someone will be along soon to answer your question
about Wee... I do hope it is a wii coming out that would be painful

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Originally Posted by uzi9

i have been having some trouble of last when its come to cuming... it feels like i going to wii when i am about to come, which put me off and is soon followed by losing my erection.

Does this sensation of wanting to "wii" happen when you masturbate? If yes, how long have you been masturbating? If no, then the reason it is happening when you are with a girl is (a) if you know your bladder is empty, you are being stimulated to a much greater degree than when home alone; (b) if you do not have an empty bladder, I recommend emptying it sometime just before fooling around and testing this.

It is important to know that this is a false signal that is quite common for both genders who are new to masturbating and/or making love with someone. The urge will subside and go away in a short time the more experience you acquire. So, just push thru the urge and you will find your orgasm right on the other side.

Is the loss of an erection because you stop the stimulation? If so, just pause and let the sense of urgency subside and then go on. Losing an erection is no big deal, just continue making out and rebuild it.

If your penis goes limp while fooling around and before the urge to pee, then the most likely cause is Performance Anxiety where you are worrying about this and other things. The more you worry about "what ifs" the worse the condition becomes. The fix is to quite simply stop worrying about whatever is swimming around in your head. (I know easier said than done.)

I seem to ok when it comes to sex but when my gf trys oral sex or with her hands i just tense up b/c i know what will happen. I have to stop my gf or distract her so doesn't know what about to happen,

As explained above, more than likely nothing will happen. So just relax as much as possible and continue on. You have to train your brain, so this is really an exercise, also.

i have tried by myself a few times and sometimes i am able to cum normally and sometimes water or wii comes out....

any suggestions??

Asked and answered.

Give these suggestions a try for a few sessions and get back to us.

[uzi9]

yes it does happen when i masturbate and i have been masturbating since my teens ( in my late 20's now). I have tired a few times and found that if i carried on then instead of seaman, its water / wii that cames out. I am pretty certain that my bladder was empty at the time. i did try in the shower and found water / wii coming out.

i dont have any issue with staying hard just the feeling is very different whe in it does work and when it doesnt. i understand all the comment about having the right mind set but in all my years i have a not had this problem.


also nuttychick am gald i made you day ....

[rognlas]

There is some problem with you to getting or maintaining erections. No worry. There is so many prescription based drugs available. you can try any one but that will be much better before taking any medicine first consult to your physician about the drugs that will be better or not. I know about a drugs that is especially works on male health.

[funinthesun]

Now there's something to brag about on a date. Hey baby, I scored 10,000 on Wii Boxing with the controller strapped to my penis!