Husbands libido

[rolldesignsweetie]

Hi everyone my hubby is having a serious problem. He is 23 years old and never gets horny, and I don't mean he just doesn't get horny when i want to have sex he wants to have sex but can't get the physical feeling of wanting to have sex. he has never had his hormones tested but he has never been really excited by anything. we don't drink or do any drugs. He doesnt drink soda he drinks only water. and he drinks alot of water in a day probably a case a day. He is in fairly good health too. So what can we do? Should we look into a herbal libido booster? What would you recomend. I wouldn't even talk to anyone but this is starting to really hurt his confidence and is starting to put a major strain on our relationship.

[Brandye]

Forget the quack stuff sold on the net or at the local health food store. He needs a complete physical exam during which this issue is discussed with his doctor. There will likely be referral and tests.

Then, you can start thinking about resolution of the problem - if there is one.

[dancingdoc2]

A. Get him to the doctor for a complete physical.
Make the appt. & get him in, hook or by crook.

B. Inform the doctor what is going on and ask for a complete test of his labs. Y'all need to have a base line from which to plan future steps.

Do not wait for him to do A and B as you will likely be waiting a very very long time, so with his knowledge, pick up the telephone.....

Herbals? Why? They do not always work and without knowing for what problem you could be doing more harm than good, especially if he is generally not excited by much of anything. (How 'bout being excited about you?)

[rolldesignsweetie]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

(How 'bout being excited about you?)

he wants to be, but he just isinst excited by me alone. He does get an erection but we really have to work hard for it. and it never just happens when we kiss or when he sees me nude or in sexy things. I have to fondle him for a while to get an erection, and then it doesnt last for very long. and the problem with taking him in to the dr. is he doesnt have any insurance right now.

[Brandye]

We can give some good advice. We cannot solve the U.S. problems with health care.

[rolldesignsweetie]

^^ I know...it sux