Need a sex stimulant to help marriage

[jrsitman]

I love my wife very much and our relationship is good. She has been having medical problems and we haven't had sex for over a year. Now she is starting to get in the mood and I've lost the sexual desire for her. I still get horny thinking about other women, but not her. Her body is still sexy, but the year without it has done something to my sexual attraction for her. I want to have sex with her so I'm HOPING there is some stimulant that will make me horny.

Thanks,

[dancingdoc2]

This may be one of those cases in which if a marriage is moving along successfully that sex is 10% of the reason; yet if the marriage has problems, sex is 90% of the reason.

How are the other aspects of your relationship? If the relationship is OK, then try just fooling around and making out for a few weeks. Do not make sex or intercourse a goal. Your task is to reconnect emotionally with your wife. Let sex happen if it does.

[jrsitman]

Other than the sex, we have a very good relationship. We laugh, enjoy each others company, go out with friends, etc.

I'll take your advice. I just wish there was some Magical Potion to help jump start me.

[Brandye]

You two really need a re-introduction. Maybe a one or two visit therapy session would help. Or, a complete change of pace - a vacation to somewhere you both want to go, alone, and see what the two of you can cook up.

[jrsitman]

You're correct. We go to the Mexican Riviera in February. Hope that will help.