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Old 06-17-2008, 09:32 PM
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Sadly... I was looking for something more than just "wacking off". I found some pens, some vasaline and went away. The cumming was the best I've ever felt, going at both simultaenously.

My only problem is, afterwards i went to the bathroom and noticed some blood..

Is this normal? Its bright red, im not sure if it's becuase that was my first time or what.. Am I okay?

Is that sick?
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Old 06-17-2008, 09:59 PM
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i'm pretty sure that using pens wasn't the best idea. too pointed, not enough curvature. probably damaged some of the sensitive tissues in there. even though i don't really have experience in that area, i'd say that unless you were gushing, you're fine. i'd suggest getting a toy meant for that kind of play.

and if you're asking if you're experimenting is sick, i'd say no. i mean, i'm not a guy, but if i were i'd probably be curious with stimulating my prostate.
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I didn't use the pointed end of the pens, I used the back of the pen which was moderately soft. Unfortunately in my position there is no way for me to get a toy, do you know of any in-home devices usable for this kind of thing.
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Old 06-17-2008, 11:05 PM
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First, about safety, you should never use anything for anal play that is not designed for it. Go to an adult store and get your self a proper toy with a flared base. Two reasons for this, first you don’t want to do any more damage to your self. Second, if the object doses not have a flared base then it can get “lost” and you can end up in the ER with a very embarrassing explanation. I can’t judge how much damage you did do, so I can’t say if you should see a doctor. If there is persistent pain then I would say to talk to a doctor even if it is embarrassing.

Second, as for you being “sick”, I think Alfred Kinsey said it best “The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform”. There is noting wrong with it and it most certainly dose not make you gay (not that there is anything wrong with being gay). Personally, prostate stimulation dose not interest me, but if you like it, there is nothing wrong with it.
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Echoing the same sentiment as others. If the bleeding hasn't persisted, if you don't feel pain upon defecation or any other lingering symptoms you're probably fine but if possible it might not be a bad idea to get it checked. Definitely get it checked if you are still having problems.

I understand the issue with obtaining toys, and in my young repressed years some interesting things found their way up my backside. But it's very important you stick with things made for this activity. As Mr. Saint points out you don't want to end up in ER making lame excuses why something is stuck up there. NEVER use anything remotely pointed, excessively hard, breakable or that can completely disappear inside. Make sure the item is sterile or better yet put a condom on it. Always use plenty of lube, take your time and never force.

Considering much of the pleasure you're encountering is most likely from the prostate being stimulated I don't know why anyone would think that's "sick". It's the male G spot . . . . maybe not the best location for it, but what are ya gonna do?

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Old 06-18-2008, 03:23 PM
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Use toys...and items which are not "lost" and damaging. No need to explain much to the ER staff...most know what a person did despite their explanation's. So, not embarrassing for us...a good laugh in the break room.

Try using sex "Toys"...remember miscellaneous items float around and get lost in the anus!
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remember miscellaneous items float around and get lost in the anus!
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Basically the long version of what's already been covered here, but you might want to review the wiki page -

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anal_masturbation
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Had plenty pf interesting items in the ER; batteries, vibrators, coat hangers, door knobs, & vibrators!
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Coat hangers? Sounds like a back-alley anal abortion to me!

Am I unusual in that I don't like to stick things up my anus?
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