lose my erection when i put condom on or when im inside of her

[petenpete]

everything is rock hard durring four play and everything. i stay hard for hand-jobss and blows-jobs but when it has come to sex i always go limp. everytime i put a condom on it seems i think about my past and i go limp. I have even masturbated with a condom on to prove to myself i could. But i just cant get over it. please help. im only 19 and very athletic.

[sera300]

Please read the beginning forum for possible solutions--they are there. And double posting is will not return a faster result.

Best thought? Nerves...and too much lack of focus [yourself] on how you feel...even after you might be okay alone...a new person sexually speaking adds to the changes. Again NERVES & over excitement.