12-04-2007, 03:56 PM
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I need help ASAP (PRE CUM issues)
Hi, I need help.
I have been out of the game for a few years now, no dates, not female sexual contact apart from the random kiss in the clubs now and then. Nothing ever seemed to develop into more than that until recently. I found a nice girl who likes me and I like her a lot. This could be the one for me, forever. We dated a few times and things are starting to get serious. My problem is this, we could be at the cinema, sat in my house watching a DVD, anything and I have excessive pre cum all the time. Nothing sexual could be happening, just holding hands and I can feel it and it’s not a good thing if my jeans become damp in one spot. If we are kissing and lying on the couch it happens even more excessive. It’s not a good look when I take my jeans off and it looks like I have wet myself. I need to stop this ASAP. It’s making me very conscious about myself and its harming my confidence with this girl. 
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12-04-2007, 05:32 PM
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It's normal & as a female...well I find those issues which men have erections, precum, etc. flattering! I know I am turning him on! If you held her hand & noticed her pants seemed damp through her panties...would you not find that flattering (knowing you were turning her on)??????
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12-04-2007, 07:46 PM
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12-05-2007, 06:49 AM
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Well ok looking at it that way but coming out of the cinema with moistness in the area of my tip odsent look good. It never happened before, i just cant understand why.
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12-05-2007, 10:19 AM
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> It never happened before, i just cant understand why.
Do you mean it has never happened before, or, just never to that extent? "Pre"-cum by definition means that which precedes. My guess is just not to that extent because this liquid will leak out when we become aroused. There may not be a lot when you masturbate, yet there should always be some. The reason you experienced a lot that time is because she had turned you on a lot! We become aroused to a much greater extent when in the presence of a lover than when we are home alone. Why? "Sparks", "Chemistry", pheromones. I agree that you should not be upset by its appearance, embrace what is happening and the affect she is having over you. It's really a good thing. If you are concerned about the possibility of the moisture showing on the outside of your clothing, my suggestion is to place a washcloth in your underware in order to absorb the liquid. Hey! this can also have a side benefit, that being that if you fold the material right, you can appear B I G G E R !  If you think the idea silly, just consider that young girls have been stuffing bras with tissue for generations. "Go with the flow" as they say.....
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12-05-2007, 10:43 AM
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 . It made me feel really sexy, especially when I slurped it up.
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12-05-2007, 06:23 PM
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Its never happened to the extent it is happening now. And the washcloth idea is good, i have used it but its a pain when we are in bed and light things are happening but then i got to move it around. I havnt slept with the girl yet either.
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12-05-2007, 06:32 PM
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 And doc; now they have those nice padded gel bras! End of the "tissue stuffing", LOL!
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12-06-2007, 12:09 AM
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...and made of air, now, also. Hmmmm......................................
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Life without dancing? I don't think so...... The feet may learn the steps; yet only the spirit can dance! Dancing is the fastest way to get a girl alone and into your arms in public. The Tango smolders and burns. It ignites the heart, the soul, and yes, the libido. Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning how to Dance in the Rain! Dance as if nobody is watching.
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