10-06-2007, 09:10 PM
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You have to try to stop the hydrocodone. This may be altering your perception of what is really happening. Wellbutrin? There can be some effect from the pain med but I would say the majority of your "hyper-sensitiveness" or over reacting is being caused by the pain pills. She may just be annoyed with you for a bit due to the med. The Wellbutrin may block some of the effects of the pain med. Sort of creates a big old mess...
Certainly take it if you must but try to get off it. Vicodin has a base of Tylenol; therefore, for pain try plain old acetaminophen (Tylenol) and see if that's enough. It alters your perception of issues...
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10-06-2007, 10:29 PM
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Wellbutrin is a anti depression drug. pretty low strength...nothing like Prozac. I know that the hydrocodone can mess with my head, In fact I have been having dizzy spells and nausea from not taking it and stuff...basically i take it to sleep since the pain is enough to keep me up. As far as altering issues...maybe...but she does seem a bit snappy, and I dont know if she is neccessarily annoyed with me cuz she actually wants to come over to help take care of me
 but since her mom is psychotic shes forbidden to see me for a while...I think cuz my license restrictions end on the 20th and so I can drive....lol very long story...I dont know ive just been really ugh lately and I wrote a poem (my way of getting rid of my problems) and I feel better...I made my girl dinner and im gonna surprise her with it after work, maybe things will get better......maybe...
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10-06-2007, 11:07 PM
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Say hello to the end of your relationship. Usually happens pretty soon after the girl gets "distant" and "doesn't want to talk about it"...
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10-06-2007, 11:13 PM
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 Definitely not what I wanted to hear...I really hope its not the case. I hope its more of a flashback time. (girlfriend had some sexual abuse when she was younger and sometimes she has flashbacks and usually it leads to a very bad breakdown, and then she is back to her happy self.)
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10-06-2007, 11:15 PM
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Some girls have difficulty saying no, so they'll put up with discomfort until one day they can't take it anymore. I had a girlfriend that seemed to always be changing her mind what she liked. It used to be she loved being fingered or masaged a certain way, then months later out of the blue she would stop my hand in the middle of doing what she claimed to love, saying that it was a sensitive spot or it just didn't feel right. Ah, the miracle of open communication.
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10-06-2007, 11:21 PM
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All I know is the more I think about it, the more I realize how complicated it could be....and machine my girlfriend kinda does that like she knows what turns her on, and then like one day it doesnt work....she likes when i touch her chest and then like a month later its not really big with her..."feels weird"
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10-06-2007, 11:37 PM
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Well I'm not sure if it's the case, but I've seen this same thing happen to people time and time again. And with your ages and how long you've been together, everything lines up right. Typically it ends with getting a blubbering phone call from the girl saying "it's not working for me". But what do I know? Looking back I probably shouldn't have mentioned it.
The only advice I have for you right now is don't let it eat at you, partly because you don't really know what's going on with her, and mostly because it's not a big deal. Really, it's not. It happens all the time, to everyone. Cliche I know, but it's less of an "ending" and more of a "new beginning". As far as your self-esteem issue: Don't rely on others to build up your self-confidence. That's something that needs to come from you alone...
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10-07-2007, 12:28 PM
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Dude everyone wants me to dump her??? lol
Well i did ask for everyones opinion. Anyways we had a heart to heart last night...the dinner i cooked her really helped open her up...anyways her sudden change and not wanting to talk about what she likes was due to the sexual abuse she experienced when she was a youngin. She would get extremely turned on when I would masturbate in front of her, and she wasnt really sure why, but then on a few occasions it would turn her off...like literally couldnt get her in the mood the rest of the day....I guess when i was talking about it going down on her and stuff she was going through a "flashback" and she realized it bothered her cuz her babysitter would jack off in front of her so it kinda set her back and put her in a shel cuz she was hating herself....i mean what one guy did that caused so much pain suddenly caused so much pleasure (or at least turned her on alot) messed with her head. As far as the joking and stuff....she apologized for it and she did admit that she had felt bad after she had said it....so yea Last edited by Ducy; 10-07-2007 at 12:38 PM..
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