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Welcome to adolescence. Erections of the spontaneous variety will be happening to you from now and for the next four or five decades! Your penis seemingly has a mind of its own, yet truth be told, the erections result from sensory stimulation:
* Visual stimulation like seeing a mannequin, pretty girl, photograph or magazine ad
* Smell
* Aural (hearing something erotic)
* Touch
* Taste
Any/all of these can be sufficient to cause a guy to become erect. For the next several years you will just have to tolerate them. Actually, while you may be embarrassed by them, most people will not notice them because we simply do not go around looking at a person's trousers,etc.
If a girl does notice your bulging pants, do not panic. If she caused it, she will no doubt be pleased to know she has had this affect on you. Be pleased!
> Even dancing in PE I do, is there any way to not get one?
Oh! yes, do I remember those days.... If you held a girl close and your pants rubbed against her dress--INSTANT ERECTION OF THE HARDEST KIND! My answer to this not so unique problem is to separate yourself slightly from your partner so as to have some space between you. Otherwise, don't panic and go with the flow. "Unsightly" erections are usually only a problem for the boy and not his girlfriend!
I understand your anxiety, yet these erections are and now will be a regular occurrence, you cannot turn erections off. Once you become more comfortable with these happening all the time, you will not be bothered by them so much.
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Life without dancing?
I don't think so......
The feet may learn the steps;
yet only the spirit can dance!
Dancing is the fastest way to get
a girl alone and into your arms in public.
The Tango smolders and burns. It ignites the
heart, the soul, and yes, the libido.
Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass,
it's about learning how to Dance in the Rain!
Dance as if nobody is watching.
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