Im lasting a long time

[nayr]

Hi Im 18

and i have just started to have sex

the first time half way through ill use "half" lightly ull see why in a min the girl goes have u cum yet probs about 6mins into it.
I say no she told me this is a good thing but we kept going and going

she was getting real wet.

i still havent Cum yet and we been going for a good 35min

I Could feel myself gettig close but then the feeling went and then came back.

at the end of the she had finished b4 me

And this has happen every single time

any help or advice?

[demonbuttercup]

Do a google or board search on Retarded Ejaculation
It can have many psychological reasonings behind it.

[dancingdoc2]

Yes. If I understand your concern correctly, you need to place the proverbial horse before the cart and not the other way around as seems to be the case right now. There seems to be a recent trend mostly amoung young guys that the way to a climax is by lot and lots and lots and lots and lots of stroking--WRONG. This is the why of Necking, Petting, Heavy Petting, and ultimately Foreplay. All this used to be called getting to 1st, 2nd, 3rd base, etc. Intercourse should not begin until your arousal has been peaked by this process, first, and you are on the verge of a climax yet can still maintain control while you shift around and get into position. Intercourse and particularly the act of stroking and thrusting should last less than about ten minutes otherwise most women report that they become sore, tired, and, BORED.

> at the end of the she had finished b4 me

I understand what you are saying, yet please understand that in the overall scheme of things, there is no rule that says a woman can't or shouldn't climax first. Often, a caring and compassionate lover will attend to his partner's needs, first, and help her to have a climax before intercourse and/or after, if these are her wishes. It is also not unheard of for the man's climax to trigger his partner's.

Making love is a partnership, it is not what one person does to the other, rather, what we do with and for each other. With this in mind, give each other feedback on how you are respoding to each other's caresses (or in this case, the stroking), and, for what you need--now. If she is moving her body in a way that stimulates you, let her know. If you get that "feeling" let her know so she can perhaps keep her contribution to the process going a bit longer.

[nayr]

Ok thanks but maybe this can help as well

i left it out

when i masterbate i find myslef cumming fast with in a few mins

[Beans518]

Don't mastrabate before you have sex. With some men, after they have come that first time it takes longer to the next time around.

[nayr]

I didnt b4 actually b4 that time i hadnt for atlest 5 days

[wifey123]

Originally Posted by nayr

I didnt b4 actually b4 that time i hadnt for atlest 5 days

does she turn you on? Sometimes some men masturbate so often that they prefer that than intercourse with a girl. So is she turning you on?

[demonbuttercup]

Check here

[Brandye]

The vagina handles that thing very gently. It is smooth, warm, damp and a generally very pleasant environment for a penis. Other techniques of extracting semen are all rougher, higher stimlation and cruder causing more rapid stimulation of the nerves of the penis.

One who is accustomed to masturbation (yourself or a friend) or oral sex will find the vagina a more gentle and, perhaps, less stimulating environment.