Just Wondering...

[itsjustme10]

I've been struggling with P.E since I could remember and it's just so humiliating. I'm a able to eat out and finger a girl but when it comes to me I just get so arroused and nervous that I ejaculate pretty much on the first stroke. So I was wondering if taking Viagra would maybe not cure P.E. but maybe postpone the ejaculating for awhile or are there any tips yall could give to help me out...

[dancingdoc2]

PE is a concern that gets quite a lot of discussion on this Board, so much so that there is a Sticky post on the matter. Please read the following information: Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controling Premature Ejaculation in the SEXUAL HEALTH: MEN forum.

Viagra, even if you could get a prescription for the medication will not help. Why? Because the problem is not one of establishing and maintating an erection that is the purpose of this and the alternative drugs. PE is primarily caused by a person not being able to recognize and then consciously control the sensations that occur just prior to an ejaculation.

Premature Ejaculation is an extremely common problem for teen boys and young men up to their mid twenties. It can also occur at anytime on a temporary and transitory basis for the rest of us throughout our life. PE rarely if ever happens when masturbating. The reasons are twofold; first, because we are not turned on as much; second, because we are able to modulate our stroking and fingering with the aid of internal feedback. When we turn control over to someone else, we no longer have benefit of any feedback. To compensate, we need to give each other verbal or non-verbal cues as to how we are responding to each other's caresses. In addition, we need to learn to associate those sensations that we experience immediately prior to a climax so that we can then slow down or pause the proceedings. There is a training exercise that is explained in the reference. An additional outcome of undertaking the exercise is in being able to keep a portion of the brain focused on the here and now, and to not become totally and completely lost in the euphoria to the extent that we talk ourself into just "going with the flow" or that the climax just sneeks up on us seemingly out of the blue.

Read the information and then put the two methods described into practice. If you have additional questions, please do not hesitate to ask.

[madeye]

First tips are just to be creative. start feeling excited pull out and rub or lick her clit real good (women need a bit more stimulation anyways)

The tingle jingles go away, start getting back to your business.

make sure you adjust your tempo. dont kiss as much as you were before. and dont go all out buck wild in one position. focus on pace, spend 15 minutes then change positions.

just remember the women doesn't need constant penetration and she also doesn't need to be power humped as fast as possible the entire time, this all works out for everyone cause she will most like love that you stop and give her extra attention, and really all your doing is keeping your self from pulling the trigger.

Good luck