Has anyone else experienced this??

[jamie]

I wasn't sure in which forum to post this, so I have put it here - Sorry if that is wrong.
I am hoping that someone else has been in the position and can offer me some advice. I am a normally, health 22yr old male and like all men my age I like to go out, meet women and get laid. I take all precautions and always practice safe sex.
The problem is the size of my penis - When I am erect, it is just over 11 inches long, with a girth of 8 inches, and intercourse is a problem, initially for the women that I am with, but now it is being coming a confidence issue for me.
Sex is awkward as I have only been with 2 women that I have been able to penetrate to full depth, but it was still uncomfortable for them. Most like to be on top so that they can control the depth of penetration.
I did have one relationship that lasted for 8 months and during that time the sex was good as she was able to enjoy my size.
Now, I cannot get anything stable going as when we get around to talking about sex I get nervous and put it off.

[sera300]

My ex was very "well endowed" like you and at times his size was uncomfortable and limited positions (full penetration) for us and deep throat was impossible...but I have to admit it I really enjoyed his size but he really had to wait until I was really excited--was really nice!!! Really the only killer for us was my legs over his shoulders, but if he took his time and was gentle it was okay. I asked him about what happened w/other's in his past and he said about the same as you did, penetration was very difficult and limited w/most due to complaints of pain from his partner. He said most men thought having too small of a penis was a handicap but most men wishing they were larger, did not realize it had it's own issues. He just accepted it; as far as confidence be happy w/what you do have. Nothing you can do about it, but don't allow it to ruin your self-confidence, be proud of what you have!!!

[Beans518]

If we can have babies out of there then your penis can fit. The sight of it is just intimidating. Once you get a girl use to you it should be alot easier. Take it slow, tip(use just the head), Or try it completely dark so that she can't see it good.( just joking) Don't worry though, You'll find someone who'll love it! ............can I just say that I LOVE YOU( talking to penis) JUST KIDDING!

[demonbuttercup]

Originally Posted by Beans518

............can I just say that I LOVE YOU( talking to penis) JUST KIDDING!

LOL

[jamie]

Thanks for the advice so far. I am currently in the first throws of starting a new relationship. I have broached the subject of my "size" with her, and she was a little dubious if I was telling the truth to start with, until I showed her.

She didn't run away!!, and is getting used to handling it. No sex yet, but I have had a few handjobs!!

[luvmywifesass]

Damn, that's a lot a meat there, son. You'll have to really take it slow and learn to let her take the lead.

When I played football in high school there was a guy with a schlong that hung to his knee. Needless to say, he showered alone. He had a nice girlfriend, but no one wanted to take the chance of dropping the soap anywhere near him, as he could get to you from some distance <grin>.

Seriously, as with your previous serious relationship, just about any lady you find should be able to adjust to it to some degree.

P.S. - The porn industry is always looking for someone like you.

[DVDBear]

If you ever decide to "play for the other team" look me up! LOL! (I love big guys!)

[jamie]

If it hung to his knee, then he has more length than me (or just short legs!!!)

As for for playing for the other side - I was once with a girl who really wanted to see me get a handjob from a guy..????

Who knows..............If I get getting rejected by the women, maybe I'll try and find a guy who can accomodate me!

[spaceintime]

you could get a side job doing batchlerette parties or male stripping the older dames would put lots of bucks in your pants let me say some older women would proposition you maybe my wife and her friends lol.