For Boys Only- A Matter of Size (Regarding your penis)

[dancingdoc2]

The information in this Sticky post is to inform growing and maturing teenage boys about what is important with regard to the size of their penis at the present time.

It is my intent for this post to take away the angst the typical boy has concerning the size of his penis and whether or not it is large enough to please his (potential) partner. Please do not extend this thread by telling the world how large you are; please post this or other comments on the Penis Size 101 thread.

Here's a peat and yet another repeat on the matter of size to add to what has become quite a collection. This question is one of the most asked and by making this information a "Sticky post" I hope that those who choose to ask will find their answer here, first, before posting yet another thread--and not doing their "homework" and looking around the Board, first. For those wishing to respond to others about all this, you can reference this message, rather than typing a lengthy response.

Let us begin with "the long and the short of it".
First, the short story for those not interested in a long disertation:

* "Normal" is a range.
* The range varies depending upon ethnicity and genetics
* Size changes as a boy grows and matures. As we all begin
developing at different ages size vs. age is really meaningless
* What should matter to you more than size is that your
penis is fully functional and that you have researched and
learned how to use it to please your partner. In other words,
that you have become a knowledgeable, skilled, compassionate,
lover in all other aspects of making love, also.


Now for the long version:

First, boys begin to mature at different ages. There are "early bloomers" and "late bloomers" as well as those of us who just fall in the middle somewhere. Certainly you've seen 14 y/o boys in the eighth--ninth grades who are six feet tall and strapping, and then the 15 y/o who looks to be about 11. The size of a developing penis during the early teen years is not very meaninful. What is is the size at nineteen after the penis has finished developing.

Ethnicity and genetics play important rolls in determining what the eventual size of a penis will be. In general, Black males tend to come equipped with the largest endowment, whereas men of Mongoloid stock and related indigenous peoples tend to have the smallest genitals. Caucasian males occupy the middle range of what is considered "normal". So, we ask, "what is 'normal'"?

This is a range, not a specific number on a tape measure. Normal is any length over ~4.25 inches. When a person of mixed heritage takes a measurement he might find his penis to be slightly over or under what is typical for a particular ethnicity. (To measure the length of your penis, simply lay a metal or cloth tape measure along the top surface from abdomen to the tip of the Glans.)

Size does not matter to most women, this is a "guy thing" that takes some enlightenment to get beyond. What matters to women is that the penis be fully functional and that the owner operator knows how to use it in loving, caring, compassionate, knowledgeable, skilled and imaginative ways. If you want to become a great lover, then learn how to acquire and apply the above information.

What is typically a "gal thing" and of importance to her is that she considers the penis to be a combination throttle and brake through which she controls her man's speed of arousal and progress toward Nirvana and an eventual climax; therefore, the penis need only be large enough for her to adequately grasp! Depending upon how she grasps and manipulates the penis, she can speed up or slow down her partner's progress toward a climax. She can also tease AND TANTALIZE him and drive him wild with anticipation, expectation, desire, and passion.

Size is important because a lot of women enjoy the feeling of fullness they experience when a man is inside. Apparently, it does not take much to accomplish this because the vaginal vault is rather devoid of sensation.

Here are some resources:

http://members.optusnet.com.au/~austbua/penis.htm
http://www.i18nguy.com/l10n/shoes-anatomy.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_size
http://www.neo-tech.com/penis/
http://www.enlargepenisguide.com/about_size.htm
http://www.coolnurse.com/penis_size.htm

[MadMan]

U R A LIFE SAVER i've checked out a couple other of ur threads and posts and there really informative doc u really help me out im a 14 yr old boy who just wants to learn and be able have a good functional penis that i can enjoy wether masterbating or pleaseing my partner and well i really apreciate ur fine intellagence(im also dislexic so sorry if i spelt n e thing wrong)

[thereaderwithin]

one thing i dont understand is that my penis can vary?i am 17years old and when i am erect i dont understand why my penis size can vary from like 6 inches and a half to 7 inches is this normal? for example i can have 6 inches and a half on one day and the next im on 7 :s

[dancingdoc2]

This can be a normal happening.

Wait until you are with a partner and she turns you on. Your penis will feel like it is stretched to the breaking point and about to burst!!

This is all a matter of how much blood is contained inside the penis and by how turned on you are.

[-wittyphrasehere-]

Funny how Nirvana is defined as both a pleasure climax and the Buddhist term in which one seperates from attachment to worldly things. Ironic.

[anotheranon11]

Nirvana is described in Buddhism as a state of eternal bliss when you rejoin the universal spirit. The only relation it has to worldly things is that that is the method you reach it, by meditating your life away.

[-wittyphrasehere-]

Originally Posted by anotheranon11

Nirvana is described in Buddhism as a state of eternal bliss when you rejoin the universal spirit. The only relation it has to worldly things is that that is the method you reach it, by meditating your life away.

No.

Western views of it have distorted and argued it into believing it's some blissful state, similar to some 'heaven'.

The best definition is detachment from the physical realm, from hatred, anger, greed, envy, from samsara; the endless cycles of rebirths.
To be a practicing Buddhist and attain such, you don't need to be a monk spending most of the day meditating.
Hell, you can reach the echelons of society, as long as you prevent spreading suffering to others as humanly possible.

Buddha's later teachings actually denoted the concept of Nirvana, that you leave the cycle. Rather, that enlightenment, the goal of Buddhism is living, to be engaged with life and help others alleviate their pains.

[YourNameHere]

Hi, I'm 15, anbout 5' 1" and im 6 to 6 1/2 inches hard. Is this normal for my age and height?

[dancingdoc2]

It is not necessary to post duplicate posts. I responded in your other thread. When a person logs on after an absence they click on the New Messages button at the top of the screen to display all new messages in all Forums that they have not seen.

Your question above, is unnecessary. Why? Because you asked it in a thread that answered it in the opening post. Didn't you read the opening post that defines the thread? Please do not be in a rush to ask questions. We love answering them, yet have already done so to the most frequently asked ones like this. Please take some time to read the Posting Guidelines and other rules of the road in the Forum by the same name.

[weasel]

just so guys know more girls complain of guys being to big than to small, if you are small you can work at your technique and foreplay and get good, but if you are too big you will just end up hurting her and there is almost nothing you can do about it