Was this a male multiple orgasm?

[Jiffylube854]

I've been trying to train myself to have multiple O's, for obvious reasons.

Last night, I was masturbating. When I felt like I was cumming, I stopped all stimulation and did a hard kegel for about 5 seconds. Once I felt like the moment was passed, I let it go, and all this semen came out, however, I was still hard and aroused. I masturbated some more, and came "for real" after about 5 min. It was pretty kinky, literally jacking off using my own semen for lube.

Anyway, the first "thing" that happened didn't feel as good as a normal orgasm, but that might have been because I stopped all stimulation - even a normal orgasm sucks if you stop jacking during it.

Do you think this was a multiple?

[dancingdoc2]

No, I do not believe so.

[Jiffylube854]

What do you think it was? How would I know if I had a multiple?

You know how a regular orgasm sucks if you stop all stimulation at the point of no return, and let yourself just "coast" over the top? Well, this felt like that, and indeed I stopped all stimulation. Wouldn't that be a multiple?

[dancingdoc2]

From all that I have read on the matter, the male orgasm has two components, the ejaculatory action and the orgasmic action. Usually the two coincide, although as you have noted, it is possible for the ejaculation to occur without benefit of an orgasm. It is becuase of this that I do not believe that another orgasm in short order would constitute a multiple.

The definition I use to define a multiple is when two or more orgasms happen in quick succession AND within the same lovemaking session. The latter dismisses having two or more orgams at different times throughout the day. Orgasms manifest themselves differently for males and females. Depending mainly on age, and to a lesser degree, "wiring" and sex drive, guys take between ten and thirty minutes to recoup and regroup (refactrory period) before being able to have another climax. Gals can and often do have successive orgams within moments of the previous one, AND, can have many more than the typical three or four that we guys are limited to. For all concerned, if we extend the duration of our love making and rebuild arousal and have additional orgasms then these are multiples. On the other hand if we stop, go about our daily activities and later another orgasm many hours later, this or these do not constitute a multiple

Now, you experienced an ejaculation without benefit of an orgasmic release, and I presume this event happened on one side or the other of another climax; so, was this a multiple? I am sure this could be the topic of a debate; and the position I adopt is that if there was no orgasmic release, only an ejaculation, then technically, this is not part of a multiple, presuming one or more orgasms happen previously. I'd like to read what others have to think on this.

[cyclefreak]

I don't think males can have multiple orgasms, but it is possible to delay ejaculation and prolong the sensations of orgasm.

As you approach the point of no return, slow down the stroking and deliberately relax the pelvic muscles. Resume stroking very slowly, and you will find that you can hold yourself just below the ejaculation point for long periods of time. If you feel you are going over the edge, stop all stimulation for a while, let the feelings subside, then slowly resume. With practice, you will gain sufficient control so that you actually start to get some of the contractions of orgasm, along with the associated sensations, but without ejaculating. And when you do eventually ejaculate, the orgasm is more intense.

It takes a bit of practice to do this. The hardest part is learning to relax the pelvic muscles, since the natural urge is to tighten them instead. But persevere. Even if you don't succeed at first, its fun trying. I have to admit, even now I can't make it work that way every time. I've found, though, that its easier to achieve after a period of abstinence.

[dancingdoc2]

> I don't think males can have multiple orgasms, but it is possible to delay ejaculation and prolong the sensations of orgasm.

There are probably a few individuals who cannot have two or three or four ejaculations in a row, separated by whatever refractory period is required by their body; however, I disagree that it is not possible for the vast majority. If a couple wants to enjoy a couple hours of lovemaking and to have multiple orgasms, within this time period, it should be possible for guys to have another orgasm after a ten--thirty minute respite. The actual time varies from individual to individual.

As I mentioned moments ago in another thread, it is important to keep the "fires" burning during the refractory period. Some guys will loose their erection, others may not. Regardless, just keep making out in order to keep your arousal at a pretty high level so that when you do feel like having another orgasm, you do not have very much work to put back into the next one. Besides, continuing to make out is part of the enjoyment.

[cyclefreak]

Ok, I'm just talking from my own experience. My recovery period between orgasms seems to be somewhat longer than that. 10 to 30 minutes is usually not enough time for me. As a rule, it takes at least a couple of hours, often longer (although there are occasional exceptions).

My recovery time was less than that when I was younger (I'm now 51), so I guess I'm on the downward slide. Bummer!

One thing I have found, though, is that my focus these days is more on the sensual side of things. I get immense enjoyment out of hugging and kissing, and I'm really into touch. I'm discovering that there are so many ways that you can use your sense of touch, and it can involve every part of you and your partner's body. I absolutely LOVE kissing, and always have done.

[dancingdoc2]

Well said.
I hope all the young bucks on the Board will read this. Maybe you should make this a separate thread!

[dlb]

Multiple orgasms occur one after the other in fairly quick succession. That is why they are called multiple. Men CAN and DO experience multiple orgasms. I certainly do. It might depend on the man or his atitude or his and his partners' technique. I can have 4 orgasms in 4 minutes or less. Usually the first two are accompanied by fairly copious ejaculation the third I might have the usual orgasmic spasms, but no ejaculation and the fourth another respectable ejaculation. I stop at four because I am afraid to go on! Seriously! I should probably surpass that psychological limit while I am still young 46, before I loose that ability.

[andyb86]

Originally Posted by dlb

Multiple orgasms occur one after the other in fairly quick succession. That is why they are called multiple. Men CAN and DO experience multiple orgasms. I certainly do. It might depend on the man or his atitude or his and his partners' technique. I can have 4 orgasms in 4 minutes or less. Usually the first two are accompanied by fairly copious ejaculation the third I might have the usual orgasmic spasms, but no ejaculation and the fourth another respectable ejaculation. I stop at four because I am afraid to go on! Seriously! I should probably surpass that psychological limit while I am still young 46, before I loose that ability.

how is this done?