Oh MJ good you post this, I also have the same question. Apart from the need to go to the washroom I am not quite sure if when you insert the benwas u are supposed to feel them at all. In my case it feels like I have nothing inside, until it starts sliding out of course, unless i push them a little more up, then i feel something but i worry they get stuck for a little while (has happened). so, am i supposed to feel them at all? Somehow it seems i am not doing this correctly or i'm completely insensitive.
