Orgasm problems

[_Alex_]

Despite the fact that I am able to masturbate to climax easily, my gf seems unable to get me anywhere near an orgasm. She's tried both handjobs and blowjobs until she's too tired to continue. However, we haven't tried intercourse yet (are both still virgins). She tries her hardest but nothing happens.
It is really frustrating for her and making her feel upset that she can't reciprocate, even though i don't mind. As for intercourse, im worried that if i can't get to orgasm that she'll be devastated

Any help with this would greatly appreciated.

[fireblaze14]

okay so this can be many different different things. Im not a guy but i think i might still be able to help. One issue may be that there is too much pressure for you to climax and therefore you are just getting cold feet. There is also the issue of how much you actually masturbate.... this could be several different things that she has no control over. My advice is to try not masturbating and making the whole ordeal a more fun experience. Try a blindfold. If you wear one you can also become more sensitive to every touch.

[Cleveland]

My suggestion is that you both get alone, get naked, and masturbate yourselves while the other watches. You need to know what works for each other--and you will likely become so turned on by watching each other that simple touching migh make you cum for her.

[dancingdoc2]

> You need to know what works for each other--

Yes indeedy. It is precisely this information and how to acquire it that I probably address on the Board the most often. A person does not have to go back through my posts too far to find that I answer this question over and over.

> my gf seems unable to get me anywhere near an orgasm. She's tried both handjobs and blowjobs until she's too tired to continue.

http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/plea...ht=responsible


http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/plea...ht=responsible

The information I provide in my replies, above, should help you solve the problem. If you have questions after reading and applying my suggestions, feel free to ask.