erection problems

[metal133]

Hi, im a 20 year old male and ive been having problems as of late. Ive been with my gf for almost 3 months and we are deeply in love even though its only been a shot time. Ive never likd someone this much and i think she is the most beautiful thing ive ever been with. We have sex every day anywhere from 1-5 times. however sometimes its hard for me to get and keep an erection even on the 1st time. Is it possible i may be thinking too much or maybe having too much sex? also when i do get erection sometimes we'll start having sex them ill stop to put a condom on and ill go limp.... im not sure why this happens ive been with 4 other girls in the past and it hasnt happened to me with them. Any advice would help! Also, there are many times where when we are having sex i will almost get to "the point of no return" and stop or slow down to last longer, sometimes it almost feels like im 1 stroke away from ejaculating usually i will be able to keep my hard on till im done, but i havent really done this with anyone else and im wondering if its not a good idea to do.

[Danimal]

iv'e been having this same problem, im ready to go and i slip the glove on and its like i never had it.
weird...
you dont have a lot of stress in your life right now do you?
you say this chick is totally hot, i adore the girl im with, and i still cant keep it up with a condom, and id rather have no sex than unprotected sex...

[SexTherapy]

So you cant keep an erection? Maybe you can look at something to make boner or get erectile dysfunction medicine..if it is ED. You can always read erotic stories to make you hard.


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[Danimal]

i just got out of a bad marriage, so that might have someting to do with my problem, wither that or the wrath of god,
i found out from one of my girlfriends that her boy toy was haveig the same problems.. she said it lasted about a month for her and him, mabye she's so freaking hot she intimated you...

[SexTherapy]

ah the wrath of god...maybe he doesn't like people that have too much sex...

[new_neo]

i think u r really tensed up and this stress is leading to ur problem ...as here in sex the more u think negative the more happens to u if not actually then u think tht more is happening to u ...so be cool man and just enjoy ur good time with ur girlfrnd and everything good will be there ....

[unknown11]

heh tell her to slow down because your body cannot keep up with hers

[RF4569]

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[Brandye]

There used to be a thread I started on male sexual response. It seems to have disappeared. Been here too long.

The final phase of sexual response is "recovery." This varies from man to man and will lengthen as one ages. Most teenaged men can go several times in an evening - but they cannot do it day after day. Sexual fatigue includes many muscles that get tired and there needs to be an adequate supply of testosterone and sperm each time we set out. Each of these can be depleted. You are likely draining yourself and could use a break for a day or two.

It has been said that if a person puts a penny in a cup each time for a year and withdraws a shilling for the each time for the rest of his life, the pot will never be empty. That is certainly not scientific but you get the point.

[Westles]

Originally Posted by metal133

also when i do get erection sometimes we'll start having sex them ill stop to put a condom on and ill go limp.

Why dont you put a condom on first?