ok so i asked my girlfriend of nearly 2 years, what her sexual fantasy was..
she replied with: 'I'd love to be seduced'..
wtf does this mean..?? and how do i go about doing it?
really need help with this one.. thank you
Thu, 07/10/2008 - 00:04
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sexual fantasties
You have to be careful not to exceed the mandate she's given you - baby steps, buddy! If she wants more, she'll tell you.
I always thought it was just inducing sex...
Maybe giving her small kisses on her neck then replacing the kisses with a massage ... going from there..
Have a look at this:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction
Next, please read the two articles listed in the Index by EEK.
One thing you can do is to leave a love note in the morning for her to find before leaving for work. In it tell her briefly what you want to do that evening or how you look forward to ravishing her upon your/her return.
Later, pay attention to her. Let her know you love her, how much, begin caressing her lightly and doting over her. Make whatever you do all about her.
You might want to draw a bath for the two of you to soak in and just relax and talk. Warm the bathroom, light a candle and make the room reasonably dark. No candle? A night light will work. After soaking for half an hour, stand up and shower each other using only your hands. Pat her dry, no rubbing of a towel.
Escort her to the bedroom and continue the magic.
Got questions?
ok.. ive read EEK's posts.. thank you for that..
ive been thinking about it and im beginning to have the night planned out..
my girlfriend and i dont live together.. im at university and live 100 miles away but she is coming up to see me this weekend.. she gets here saturday early after noon..
ok so my plan is that when she gets here, we'll get ready, go out to the cinema then for a nice meal.. then we'll open a bottle of wine and run a nice hot candle lit bath for her.. while shes in the bath i will put the two matresses i have together in my living room (as i havent got a double bed) set more candles up.. then when shes out the bath i shall lie her down and start a long erotic massage (maybe blindfold her??), have some really romantic music playing softly in the back ground..
i was thinking obviously minimise my clothing to help her get more comfortable also..
i havnt quite decided whether i'd want anything sexual to happen straight after that or make her wait to tease her a bit more and have dessert in the meantime..
what do you think??
Oh draw it out. It will be more fun and you will both be more aroused. If seduction is what you are playig at you want to go until she is completely under your control. If she fairly begs you to take her then you know you have been succesful.
There is the problem of going too far however. During play there comes a point where yes - it is time but if you go beyond that - she turns off and it becomes "I could have had a V-8". Better to err on the side of more orgasms than only one orgasm.
is the whole blindfold thing a good idea??
I think that depends upon circumstances. Years ago my wife blindfolded me and drove me in a circuitous route to an adult motel with heart-shaped Jacuzzi and mirrors above the bed! A blindfold walk down the hall and into the bathroom or bedroom, maybe not. Blindfolded while you tease and caress her, maybe so.