Hi,
I'm looking into gels that make you feel really good when applied, things that make things more sensitive. Has anyone tried any of these and/or recommend any products? I love to give fully body massages to my partners, it would be great to find something that makes every inch of her (and me when we switch) feel so sensitive and orgasmic like as I'm giving the massage.
[url=http://www.lovrub.com/Products/SurvivalKit.aspx]LovRub - Survival Kit (this one looks appealing)
Even though I'm a guy these products should feel great on me too.
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Maybe I'm missing other products such as using things designed for other things? This is an example. Is there a reason it only says it can be used females and not males?
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I'm not so interested in making things hot and warm (if something requires it to feel great then fine), just tingly, sensitive and amazing feeling. Thanks!
EDIT: Also if anyone has any insight on which lube is better, Maximus or Liquid Silk. I've been using ID Glide but it drys too quickly and gets sticky so I'm looking for something better for vaginal sex.
Don't know about the gels, sorry. But can comment on the lubes.
- Maximus is really thick and slick, like syrup or gel. It's unlike natural vaginal lubrication. It's personal preference whether that's pro or con :). Liquid Silk is less thick and creamy. As the name says: it has this soft velvet-like feel to it. More comparable to the consistency of vaginal lubrication.
- Both do not contain glycerine. Which is particularly beneficial for women who have a tendency for vaginal infections, since glycerine is a sugar-like component that can act as a feeding ground for tiny critters.
- Both are formulated to be bio-static, this means: should it be exposed to any bacteria, yeast infection or fungal spores it will stop them spreading
- Both are long-lasting
- Both won't dry up sticky or crumbly; it's like they melt away.
- Both are water-based and therefor clean-up is easy and it doesn't leave stains on the sheets. Though you should note Liquid Silk contains some dimethicone, which is a hint of silicone.
- Both have a bitter taste to it, better not go for oral after you've applied it ;)
- Last but not least: both contain parabens. Although I was quite a fan of these lubes, I've thrown my bottles away. After I searched for data on the health-risks of it, I wasn't happy at all with what I found. There appears to be strong evidence for such ingredients to be skin toxicants and human endocrine disruptors, the latter means it could interfere with your hormone system. You'll find an overview of Maximus here: http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual-health-women/30452-scary-lube-ing...
For more opinions on both products: in the first post of the linked thread is also a link to reviews on Maximus -both positive and negative- where you can also find a lot of reviews on Liquid Silk.
When looking for another lube to chose from or to check specific ingredients, this database could be of service to you: [url=http://www.ewg.org/skindeep/browse/lubricant%3B%3Bspermicide/]Lubricant/... Products || Skin Deep Cosmetics Database | Environmental Working Group
Hope this helps :)
First: a warning. Be careful when using oil and putting on a condom after. Oil affects the condom!
That could give a whole new meaning to the word baby-oil... :rolleyes:
I've discovered my new favorite only few weeks ago: Soothe by Intimate Organics. A paraben-, DEA-, glycol-, petroleum-, perfume- free water-based lube. It is the same in consistency as Maximus and has all the benefits as mentioned. Except it contains plant-derived glycerin. And as a bonus: it has no taste and is safe to ingest :) I've posted [url=http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual-health-women/30452-scary-lube-ing... small review My goal was a bit different than yours. I use lube for anal sex mostly, so that was my primary focus when searching. As said; it's a matter of preference whether you like a thicker lube for vaginal sex as well.
I've heard many people being fan of K-Y gel by Johnson & Johnson. K-Y originally was produced for medical purposes and then went commercial. It's medical equivalent is still used in hospitals for internal exams. If you check the EWG-database, you'll find it's of the green category. K-Y contains glycerin and sadly still contains methylparaben :( And I was looking for paraben-free.
Intimate Organics also produces a regular lube called "Hydra" which I haven't tried (yet) but is supposedly very good too :) Apart from the absence of scary ingredients, it is also glycerin-free. The company sells it for both commercial and medical purposes as well.
Thanks for the info.
RR: So since you discontinued those two lubes, what is your lube of choice right now? I definitely need something better than ID glide haha
I def agree that most of the erotic comes from the physical contact, however, there must be some things that can make things more sensitive, right? Not only would that be great in a general sense but it would be great if I can have a lot more sensitivity in the condom. I don't really feel too much until the end and I've been trying different types too. Trojan twisted pleasure seemed better but I've found that Trojan's are naturally fitted to bigger guys so I feel a little unsafe using Trojan. Lifestyles fit much better on me.
I'm not interested in smell, just something that works well. I'll give the baby oil a try
I also feel that most if not all the ribbed condoms give more pleasure to the girl than the guy. I swear women have it better when it comes to sex lol. She feels amazing the whole time and I feel just ok only towards the end :)
There is a nearly infinite number of massage oil recipes but to think of any of them as having special “erotic” properties is more marketing hype than reality. You can think of massage oils as having two properties: oiliness and aroma. Oiliness has to do with properties like thickness, stickiness, and rate of absorption by the skin. Aroma is very much a matter of taste;, floral, herbal, citrus, and many more. Look up recipes for massage oil for many ideas. A very simple start is baby oil with a bit of lemon.
But remember, most of the eroticism comes from the physical contact, so also look for instructions on doing massage. To give a great massage you need to be thinking about the musculature and joints under the skin.
Be careful, some “aroma” ingredients do have a chemical effect on the skin, for example wintergreen has a warming effect BUT these ingredients can also cause skin reactions – so introduce them carefully and in small amounts.
Kupo, since you're searching for ways to become more sensitive, perhaps this could be something for you: http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing-her/31148-ever-tried-scalp-mass... Just a thought :) Also, you may like to search on this forum for "The Program" by EvilEvilKitten.
Thanks for all the info. I'll give the scalp massager a check...I love getting my scalp massaged :)
So I decided to give an arousal balm a try. This one [url=http://www.adameve.com/sexy-extras/lotions/sp-desire-arousal-balm-1334.a... Arousal Balm - Lotions - Sexy Extras
I tried it on myself and I could feel a difference and think its something that could help this sensitivity/getting and keeping it up problem I have (though I know I don't have ED)
The only problem is that it contains mineral oil which I didn't know before I bought it so I guess no using it with a condom like I was hoping for :( I'm going to try another non oil based cream but I have a question...most creams say "for women" like clit sensitizer and stuff like that. Isn't it true that it should have the same effect for men as well? I find it hard to believe that these creams would only work for women.
isn't it true that all of these products do the same thing even though they are marketed to be different?
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I'm thinking about trying this since its condom safe. Once again, this should be the same thing as everything I listed above its just marketed differently to make you think its different, right? This also has a female version which I assume is also another marketing strategy unless there really is a difference between the two?
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We've used Excite, it works very well, and seems to make everything more sensitive. We put it not only on her clit but on the tip of my penis and on her vaginal opening. Works amazingly!!!