Lol no use beating around the bush..... just tell him you want to "jump his bones".....

This reply is straight out of Brandye's playbook!

Have a fling if he agrees and if it works out maybe it will lead to something. Ya just neve' know.

> so it's not like we have a running relationship that could become awkward.

Think and act positively--that a relationship, any relationship is going to work. If you go into one with the mindset that it will be "awkward" or turn sour, or some other negative thoughts, then more than likely the relationship will not be successful in the long run.

So let it be said...so let it be done.

-doc

Skanky?!?! No, you're not "skanky" - you're just operating as manufactured, hun. Anyone who thinks women do not desire men is out of their mind!

Now then, the next time you see him, and the coast is clear, just kiss him.
That should be enough to clue him in. Just a light brushing of his lips with yours. Keep it dry and light.

If he 'quivers' then it is 'game on'!

If that doesn't work try a bright neon sign. As a guy we need those clues. I hate to betray my gender but most of the time we're as thick as molasses in winter.

Dang, I wish you were the girl I am thinking of!!!
I am in the very same situation, and let me tell you, the tension is killing me! We both are aware of our desires for each other, and even joke about it. The only thing hindering us is the relationship I am currently in. As I am no cheater, I have chosen to ignore my dersires as of now, but its getting quite difficult to do so. Should I continue to ignore said desires or is it worthy of pursuit?

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I am in the very same situation, and let me tell you, the tension is killing me! We both are aware of our desires for each other, and even joke about it. The only thing hindering us is the relationship I am currently in. As I am no cheater, I have chosen to ignore my dersires as of now, but its getting quite difficult to do so. Should I continue to ignore said desires or is it worthy of pursuit?[/quote]

If you are in an exclusive relationship, mutually agreed to, you need to weight the benefits of one or the other. Is it just sex or is it a future with a new one? Is there any real future with the person you are with? Or are you just in a stagnant relationship? Often I have found, during the course of a marriage, there was one or two men I hit it off with an there was potential if I wanted to act upon it. However, was the gratification worth ending a marriage over? Weigh the pro's & con's before doing anything. And are you in love & willing to marry the person you are with?

Oh the price of being 'exclusive'! Dude, if that's what you signed up for, then stick with it.

Next time, you'll know better.

As I am still in high school, soon to be college, I am starting to challenge my own desire to stay with my current girlfriend (Of almost two years). Looking at it from a realistic angle, I have realized that I have a whole life ahead of me to find the person that I am going to spend the rest of my life with, and that while the relationship I am currently in may be that one, one may never really know until all venues have been tried.

Plus, I am going to be in college soon, I want to live it up a little and shake loose the weight of a serious relationship! (Especially one that seems to be stagnating)

If you're off to college soon, then now is not the time to start another relationship anyway. Extricate yourself from your current one and go to college unencumbered.

I'm pretty sure that college is the time to remain single and experiment with what's out there, actually...

That was exactly my thinking!
(In a round-about type way :P)
Thanks!

Please do a search on my name and the key word "dating" or "humanity" and read what I have said about dating and why we should do it.