My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and have a healthy relationship. We have always used condoms, and she is on the pill. Today i went to pull one out and she says "no need for that", thinking to myself sure, we trust eachother enough and we feel safe.
It was great, but I found it extreamly difficult to control my ejaculation! I am much more sensitive without that layer, but i want to figure out how to control myself better. We were inturupted by hearing someone come in downstairs so, but i came in the small amount of time we were doing it (2 and a half minutes prolly). But the feeling was so much more natural than using a condom, but it doesnt make a difference if we cant enjoy it for a resonable amount of time?
Is this because im not very experienced? Is it mental? How can i control myself for longer, because i want to stimulate her, its almost more important to me than stimulating myself.
Also, is it normal to for me to ejaculate more than once durring sex? Like come, and then start going again. Because she knew I came, but didnt stop. Is it fine to come inside and keep going? Safe sex is not the issue here, we are resposible people and I just want to try somthing new and enjoy it :D.
Well, yes and maybe.....
There are two techniques that can be used to control a man's urge to climax.
The first is the "Squeeze Technique" that is very helpful in the here and now. You can do a search of this Board and/or the internet for "how to" info.
The second is an exercise that I recommend a couple do. It takes a couple of weeks or so, depending upon how often you can practice. The link to this thread will tell you about the exercise and describe it.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/16940-pe_-_special_case.htm...
ok.. apart from saying that the pill is not 100% effective and she could still become pregnant whilst on the pill and that condoms should also be used as another form of birth control..
to slow it down you should try relax. Even if you tease her clit for a bit before hand to get her really goin then start having sex she wont need as much time to have the full pleasure and it will feel so much better for u regardless of the time.
It will get longer over time it is just a new sensation you are experiencing and is over stimulating the body.
just a note from me for the other children and teenagers on these boards
REMEMBER KIDS ALWAYS PRACTISE SAFE SEX