I do not believe that it would be wrong in a moral sense to have sex with this boy. However, I do believe that it would probably be a bad idea. If you are not in a "situation or time in your life to have a relationship," you are probably also not in a situation or time in your life to handle the responsabilities and wories that come with being sexually active.

I was young and stupid when I lost my virginity, Im not saying you are young and stupid because i was younger then you are. The guy I lost my virginity to was a guy I LIKED. key word liked, I made the mistake twice. I was very stupid, now Ive been with my b/f for over 3 1/2 years and I wish that I didnt make those mistakes,
so my advice to you is dont do it, you will regret it in the end. Just think before you loose your virginity to anyone.

whether you have sex with him depends entirely on your own views of sex. What does it mean to you? to some people it is a way of having fun and relieving stress, to others it is something that should not even be comtemplated before marriage. Religion plays an important factor in this as well, your religion may deny you the right to chose whether you can have sex yet, depending on its teaching about sex.
However, this is 2003, and hopefully the general populaus of this planet have discovered that our lifes are ours for the living, and should not be dictated by anyone or anything, even in the name of religion. In this day and age, with the advanced state of thinking, sex is great, so long as both people are happy with it, and not being forced into it (this applies to men as well, its not only women who get forced into intercourse without wanting it, my first time was a great dissapointment to me, and constantly plays on my mind because i was in no fit state to make a conscious decision, and someone took advantage of that, and made me have sex with them, they then nearly took me to court for statuatory rape as we were both minors, but that is another story). Your choice is your own, iof sex is what you want, think about the consequences first, and then you will be free of worry afterwards, the worst thing in the world is to regrett losing your virginity, it should be a joyous occasion, not necessarily with the person you love, but a joyous ocassion all the same,
remeber, no regrets, if youy might regret it dont do it, otherwise just ernjoy yourself!

I started too young because I couldn't "wait to have sex." He did not know what he was doing; I did not know what I was doing; I had to sweat out my period each month, no matter how careful, and that for no fun.

In Europe and N. America, 50% of women lose their virginity between their 18th and 20th birthdays. You will know when you are ready and in the meantime can learn a lot about yourself with masturbation or discussions with your "best friends."

Good sex is great. Starting with questionable sex sets a pattern that is not pleasant.

yea, wiseman is right, you can have sex with any one, and that's it, but if you find some one you love, it will be a realy good experience.

Cara, all I can tell you is that my only sexual regret is the fact that I lost my virginity with a girl that I had no real feelings for. My suggestion would be to wait until you truly care for someone and make it special.

If you've made up your mind, take all of the usual precautions. If you're not on the pill, get a spermicide and buy some condoms. Tell him to buy some too, but don't depend on him to do so. Be sure that you are prepared, not only for having sex, but for any possible outcomes arising from it . . .