what is the big deal if a male gets a sex toy for masturbation purposes as opposed to a woman who gets a bunch of dildos to please herself?
I believe the safest sex is a sex toy because it carries no risks of STDS HIV/AIDS or pregnancies
why dont sex educators suggest to boys and girls to buy sex toys for themselves?
what is so wrong and taboo about buying a sex doll?
instead of getting an escort I decided to get a realistic vagina while still keeping my virginity intact?
is there anything wrong with me if I do buy sex toys for my masturbation sessions?:(
i think the major reason sex dolls are such a taboo (at least in america) is because the show just how lonely some one is. here we have the idea that if you want sex you'll just go pick up some chick and....yeah. but if your out getting a sex doll that either means you're too ugly or just don't have enough self-esteem to think you can get an actual human.
Nothing really wrong with a vibe or similar but getting a doll, a plastic ugly image of a human, is "creepy", even to me.
i didnt get a sex doll, i got what is called a fleshlight or a pocket masturbator so that I can stop using my hands because I heard that using a hand on the penis can not fully replicate the mechanics of sex and in the long run it can cause some serious damage to the shaft of the penis. im trying to prepare for real sex while keeping my virginity for marraige and I think getting a doll is just demeaning to a persons diginity so I decided to just get something similar to a fleshlight or a pocket masturbator.
I agree with EEK though I never believed that over a year ago.
I decided to try the sex toy thing so I got a super head honcho, isn't it strange that I get better orgasms from my hand then the toy?
Actually, no, it isn't odd. entirely different 'feel' - more intimate, more dexterity, more control.
I have never considered keeping one's virginity until marriage a valid reason.
I can not see any value in remaining a virgin any longer than one has to.
Why?
Virginity = Ignorance.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;259752]Actually, no, it isn't odd. entirely different 'feel' - more intimate, more dexterity, more control.[/QUOTE]
I just got the cyberskin vagina, some people say its better than the fleshlight
There is certainly nothing wrong with purchasing a pseudo-vagina from the local sex emporium; however, unless you want the visual image of a vulva and pubic area (if that), why not make yourself an inexpensive fully functional alternative from materials you have around the house?
Take a plastic sandwich bag or Ziplock baggie and cut a slit along one side at the bottom. The opening should be large enough to easily let your penis go inside.
Lubricate you and the inside of the bag and insert your penis. Wrap the top of the bag around your penis and then wrap a hand towel around your pseudo-vagina in order to add mass or bulk.
Lastly, "assume the position". You can place the instrument of your pleasure between two pillows, as one example if you are using the Missionary position.
The feel of the tool is very natural and offers more intense orgasms than doing it strictly by hand. Try it, you'll like it.
There is nothing wrong with it. I agree with you that it is much safer to use a sex toy rather than having escort service.
I think that whatever pleases you is your business&no one elses.Whether you are male/female makes no difference,if you prefer sex toys go for it.I don't use escorts either but i do have my estranged husband for my sex buddy(the sex is better now than when we were living together)