Dildos and the Human anus.

[Brandye]

I have been surprised over the number of posts regarding dildos and large dildos for anal use during the last few months. Previously, I posted quite completely on anal sex and its possible consequences. Those posts were generally for women but the number of men seeking dildo action in their rears has increased.

The anus, whether male or female, is designed as a one way valve; it lets stuff out but resists letting anything in. The tissue of the anus and the rectum is one cell thick, whilst the vagina is forty cells thick. The vagina, designed to admit penis (or other objects) is very elastic and can handle about anything. The muscles at the opening of the vagina are also designed to stretch to allow birth. Tears in the rectum and anus are quite common as people begin taking this action. These tears, of course, admit bacteria that cause infection and the stuff travelling through rectum is about as full of bacteria as you can imagine. The anal sphincters are not and can easily be stretched, even torn, to the point that they do not do their job.

In the long term (several years) the cumulative effect of anal sex, especially with very large dildos, can be expected to be hemorrhoids, possible loss of bowel control and infections.

Yes, I know some will engage in anal sex and even come to enjoy it (Confession: I thoroughly enjoy anal play but do not allow penetration) but certain precautions should be taken: Always use a condom when a real penis is involved. This works both ways. The worst prostatitis I have ever treated was from fecal material jammed up the penis in someone's anus. If using a toy, it should be thoroughly cleaned and have a vinegar soak each time it is used - or cover it with a condom. Second, LOTS of lube on both the receiving anus and on the object penetrating. Old fashioned, water-based lubes such as K-Y and Surgilube do the job, clean up easily and will not cause allergic reaction in anyone. Any colored, flavored, warming, numbing or other tricky should be avoided. The additional chemicals increase the risk of damage and allergic reaction.

You would not believe the things removed from there in the typical emergency room on any weekend night. Sure, we can get it out but it should not have been there in the first place.

[dengxioping]

Within your excellent presentation on anal stimulation you for got something very important. I learned it by accident and it cost me a trip to my proctologist. While engaging in anal sex do not use any desensitizing agents like "analeze." You would want to feel pain when your anus or rectum is being stretched too far. One of the few times I used a desensitizing agent I injured my anus: the dildo/vibrator was forced into my anus and I could not feel it; it received a tear in my anus. It scared me to death because that area is very vascular so a small injury will cause a lot of bleeding. Anal sex is enjoyable if you use good common sense and hygiene.

[dengxioping]

I have engaged in anal stimulation either alone or with a female partner all through my sex life. Unfortunately my current partner is grossed out by anything anal so I go at it alone. Recently I made some wise decisions I would like to share with men or women who enjoy anal masturbation. First, I limit how many times I use my anal inventory for masturbation. I learned that with so much anal stimulation I could not masturbate naturally: I needed that anal stimulation. Second, I decided not to pursue girth as a payoff for my anal orgasms. Using dildos/vibrators with a circumference greater than 5" was not a good idea. This was important since my anal stimulation was less frequent. Third, I purchased a smaller but longer dildo/vibrator and a medium sized butt plug for those times where I wish to be different. I continue to maintain excellent sexual hygiene with my inventory and my body, and I see my proctologist once a year for a check up.

[Tommyhot]

Using an appropriate flared dildo or buttplug (with plenty of lube!) and of the right size for YOU makes anal play safe and very enjoyable. This is why I scoff at the "What household objects can I use up my ass" threads. NOT a good idea. AT ALL.

[ButtAnalMan]

Nice thread

[ButtAnalMan]

Originally Posted by Brandye

I have been surprised over the number of posts regarding dildos and large dildos for anal use during the last few months. Previously, I posted quite completely on anal sex and its possible consequences. Those posts were generally for women but the number of men seeking dildo action in their rears has increased.

The anus, whether male or female, is designed as a one way valve; it lets stuff out but resists letting anything in. The tissue of the anus and the rectum is one cell thick, whilst the vagina is forty cells thick. The vagina, designed to admit penis (or other objects) is very elastic and can handle about anything. The muscles at the opening of the vagina are also designed to stretch to allow birth. Tears in the rectum and anus are quite common as people begin taking this action. These tears, of course, admit bacteria that cause infection and the stuff travelling through rectum is about as full of bacteria as you can imagine. The anal sphincters are not and can easily be stretched, even torn, to the point that they do not do their job.

In the long term (several years) the cumulative effect of anal sex, especially with very large dildos, can be expected to be hemorrhoids, possible loss of bowel control and infections.

Yes, I know some will engage in anal sex and even come to enjoy it (Confession: I thoroughly enjoy anal play but do not allow penetration) but certain precautions should be taken: Always use a condom when a real penis is involved. This works both ways. The worst prostatitis I have ever treated was from fecal material jammed up the penis in someone's anus. If using a toy, it should be thoroughly cleaned and have a vinegar soak each time it is used - or cover it with a condom. Second, LOTS of lube on both the receiving anus and on the object penetrating. Old fashioned, water-based lubes such as K-Y and Surgilube do the job, clean up easily and will not cause allergic reaction in anyone. Any colored, flavored, warming, numbing or other tricky should be avoided. The additional chemicals increase the risk of damage and allergic reaction.

You would not believe the things removed from there in the typical emergency room on any weekend night. Sure, we can get it out but it should not have been there in the first place.

The facts that you mentioned are not all true. Although large objects may harm, normal size cock is not. whatever the times you fucked in your asshole with. The most important point her is that you have not been tried the anal penetration yet. And as i think, you are afraid to do. Just try some help from a guy who know how to do it...and you will enjoy.

Originally Posted by dengxioping

Within your excellent presentation on anal stimulation you for got something very important. I learned it by accident and it cost me a trip to my proctologist. While engaging in anal sex do not use any desensitizing agents like "analeze." You would want to feel pain when your anus or rectum is being stretched too far. One of the few times I used a desensitizing agent I injured my anus: the dildo/vibrator was forced into my anus and I could not feel it; it received a tear in my anus. It scared me to death because that area is very vascular so a small injury will cause a lot of bleeding. Anal sex is enjoyable if you use good common sense and hygiene.

Definitely true, because this type my cause problems...and the more important is that you need to have the full sensation for your asshole fuck....enjoy

[dancingdoc2]

> The facts that you mentioned are not all true. Although large objects may harm, normal size cock is not. whatever the times you fucked in your asshole with. The most important point her is that you have not been tried the anal penetration yet.

Much of our purpose on this site is to provide information. Please tell us what is not all true.

> And as i think, you are afraid to do. Just try some help from a guy who know how to do it...and you will enjoy.

Your assumption is incorrect had you researched and read more from Brandye on the topic.

[ravishing]

Originally Posted by ButtAnalMan

The facts that you mentioned are not all true. Although large objects may harm, normal size cock is not. whatever the times you fucked in your asshole with. The most important point her is that you have not been tried the anal penetration yet. And as i think, you are afraid to do. Just try some help from a guy who know how to do it...and you will enjoy.



Definitely true, because this type my cause problems...and the more important is that you need to have the full sensation for your asshole fuck....enjoy

A normal sized penis is a large object and definitely large enough to harm. She has made it clear that she does not want anal sex and it doesn't matter that she hasn't tried it. Most women that have tried it - don't like it. Not even all gay men who try it, like it. Have you ever had an object the size of a penis in your butt?

[Buffy_Lynn]

I have to ask, ButtAnalMan, have you ever been on the receiving end of an anal experience? I've tried it and it is not pleasant. I agree with Brandye on this, that the anus is an out only orifice, and if a woman is uncomfortable with anal, leave her be. You should also know Brandye is far more informed with the medical aspect of this topic than you are. I understand some women (and men!) do enjoy it. To each their own.

[raunchy gal]

Ok this is probably not the right place to post this,but i was given an anal dildo and a battery operated butt plug as a gift for my birthday tomorrow.What is the difference between the two.Can anyone please explain!! I'm a novice when it comes to anal sex and i like it but not on a regular basis