Respect, Love, Communication, and a little courage ;)

[PaulB79]

Hi everyone. I just wanted to talk a little about a board game that me and my wife bought when we went to our local Adult shop and some toys.

Basically, me and my wife have been married for 2 years now, going on 3.
We have a normal sex life, all the usual things we all do. Well not all, but you know what I mean. Anyway, one night I decided to communicate to my wife of my wanting to try some new things, spice things up a little but in a respectful and loving manner with full understanding of our limits. To my surprise, She looked at me and smiled and said ok lets talk.

We talked, about quite a few things and decided that a trip to the adult store would be the key. So we went yesterday. You see, I was very unsure of myself that she would be interested being more adventurous, but she surprised the heck out of me yesterday.

We looked at everything, one thing at a time, masterbators, dildos, anal toys, bondage, massage oils, board games, everything and told each other our feelings towards each thing. She wanted to buy me a masterbator/fake vagina for when she wanted a break from lovemaking/sex or when she was on her cycle. Then she told me when i comes to dildos, she's less interested since she is more clitoral then vaginal. I knew that already. Then we got in front of the anal toys. She grabbed a inch wide butt blug and said she was interested in experimenting on the subject. On the both of us! I said, fine, since it is one of my fantasies, anal with her, I told her, its ok, If you let me, I'll let you, it's only fair I feel the same things she's feeling. Bondage, the rough stuff was a big NO, Then we ran into this game. "Discover your Lover" We bought it and played it last night. WOWOWOW! Really something. If you want to add spice, fantasies to your relationship, this game is the way to go.

We learned some new things about each other, did some things we have never done before and we really enjoyed ourselves for like 2 hrs and promised each other another night of fun soon with this game. It's worth ever penny. It's incredible what you can learn by playing this game. The fantasies she is interested in, and that im interested in. We had a great time.

So all in all, with communication and respect for each other and alot of love and consideration, me and my wife have really raised the bar in our lovemaking sex life and this morning before we left we looked at each other in the eyes and could tell our love for each other is beyond words.

but to each his/her own of course. respect.

[VanellaSchnella]

I think trust and honesty are key too