Dildo is too cold..

[poupounne]

warming it up is good before usage.worth a try ladies

[bearsex]

Try getting a heating pad it plugs in to the wall. from walgreens or another store ie drug store walmart . plug it. Place the desired toy on pad before you going to do the wild thing and bam when you need it , its warm . Its also good if you strain muscles .

[funinthesun]

It is ridiculous to need to ask this.

I keep a candle warmer($5 at Walmart) on my nightstand. It either has a candle on it or a clay container of massage oil or water with the option to store a glass dildo in it. A crock pot works just as well for what you're doing, if a bit more conspicuous than the candle stand.

On a side note, the candle is usually of a rarer scent not encountered often so that smell in particular gets related to sex and good memories and can be used to subtly get someone thinking about it.

[darkfeelings]

yeah its realy big problem my god...