Can vibators stop you from oragasm when having sex

[Bessy]

I am 25 years old and have been using sex toys for the past few years. I have never had a boyfriend or had sex. A friend of mine told me that the more you use a vibrator the less likely you are to oragasm when you have sex. Is this true? as i have never had sex with a man, i am worried that i won't be able to oragasm when i do. Please help!

[dancingdoc2]

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* Most vibrators produce strong sensations that do help bring about a woman's orgasms.
* Vibrators are very enjoyable
* If vibrators are used more than occassionally, they tend to condition the nervous system to only respond to their strong stimulus--not the weaker sensations of the fingers, lips, or, tongue.

I recommend that you learn to reach orgasms using your fingers. This takes repeat practice in order to retrain your brain. You can still use a vibrator once in a while, although, do not rely upon it as you seem to be doing now.

Did you ever learn to climax just from fingering? If not, you bypassed an important step in your development. Go back and learn what it takes to build your arousal using your fingers. Once you can climax regularly and consistantly using your fingers, when it comes time to share the experience with a man, then you can show him how and guide his movements until he learns your unique technique. Important to the process is to also provide him with feedback (verbal or non-verbal) on how you are responding and for what you need now/next.

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I hope this is of help. Good luck.