Vibrator Question.

[redeye2YYZ]

Hello,

A while back I bought my wife a vibrator that had a remote control with it. It had straps for her legs and it sat on the out side with a small portion that would go in her. It was silicone mostly however when she would strap it on and put it in her shortly there after she started to feel a burning sensation and she would have to take it off. I made sure that it was cleaned properly and I also put lube on it for comfort. We used it a few times but the more she did the more the experience "burned" her. The unit was functioning ok and one time I left it one for a while, we checked it and the vibrator it self wasn't over heating.

That was the feeling she got. I have since thrown the unit away. The company that I bought it from told me that I should use a specific cleaner which I did.

Just recently she told me that she wants to explore more with sex and now she wants a Rabbit Vibrator or something of that sort. Of course I am all for her using one but I am afraid that it may happen again. I look forward to any suggestions. Thank you.

[funinthesun]

"Mostly" silicon isn't a good enough description. Was the part that goes inside silicon? Did you have a small amount of lube? While some don't require it, a vibrator does rub one a few thousand times per minute so inadequate lubrication can quickly become irritating from friction. Also, some people frequently have small tears at the entrance that could burn. Some people are allergic to some rubber based compounds as well as some lubes that have paraben, glycerin, or "sensation enhancers". It could be a few different things-she would be the best one to be asking the questions and reading the responses.

[redeye2YYZ]

The small part that entered her was silicon and it didn't go in all the way just entered her. We didn't have that much lubrication on it as I remember. I also put on Vaseline, not a whole lot but that too made her uncomfortable. Thank you for the info.

[Ell]

You should really consider ditching the vaseline as lube. The body cant absorb it & it can be hard to wash out completely so It can harbor bacteria & possibly give her an infection. Is this the only silicone toy that you 2 have tried?

[redeye2YYZ]

Originally Posted by Ell

You should really consider ditching the vaseline as lube. The body cant absorb it & it can be hard to wash out completely so It can harbor bacteria & possibly give her an infection. Is this the only silicone toy that you 2 have tried?

Hello Ell, yes this is the only toy we used so far. We did put on more of the lube than Vaseline and it only made her uncomfortable for about 10 - 15 min. Even when I rub her down there it makes her uncomfortable then it gets better. I really enjoy doing that to her and I know she likes it too but is too scared about the discomfort. Any input would be great. Thank you.

[Ell]

Originally Posted by redeye2YYZ

Even when I rub her down there it makes her uncomfortable then it gets better.

Are you talking about with the toy or just rubbing her in general? If you rubbing her makes her uncomfortable then it sounds more like a medical problem & she should talk to her Doctor. There are alot of possibilities... it could be the lube, the materiel that the toy is made of, or friction, but if she is uncomfortable just from you rubbing her with out any lube or toy then it may not have anything to do with the toy.

[Brandye]

Vaseline is not a good choice. Try one of the water based lubes - Surgilube or plain K-Y. I have never heard of any reaction to either.

[redeye2YYZ]

Yes I mean touching her and messaging her. There are times where she feels very uncomfortable and it burns. I noticed that at times she feels dry. I guess that wouldn't help. We've been married for nine years and her discomfort comes and goes as such. We had some fun last night and I rubbed her last night without any discomfort.

The only toy she did have gave her a burning feeling. She tired it for a few weeks but didn't help. We didn't use a large amount of lube, just enough to cover the toy. Should it be "soaked" in lube? We are going to try a glass or plastic toy with a good amount of lube, hopefully that will work.