Where could I find very small dildos?

[kate_luana]

Long story short: I am a virgin looking to gradually dilate my vagina enough for intercourse. I'm finally able to insert small tampons, and hoping to gradually increase the size of what I can tolerate. At this point, though, when my boyfriend's pinky finger is inside, it stings and hurts after a couple minutes. I can't do anything much larger than that.

Once I get to being able to insert his larger fingers, I would like to gradually increase the size of what I insert, something larger than tampons but smaller than a penis. My gynecologist recommended finding small dildos at a sex shop to practice with. I've looked online extensively for such a product, but at every site I've been (must have been at least eight or nine), the smallest dildos were still the size of a penis. And of course, all the medical dilators I can find are well into the hundreds of dollars range, way out of my budget.

Does anyone know a site where I might be able to find reasonably priced, extremely small dildos or dilators? I would greatly appreciate your help!

[sera300]

Drop Suki2007 a note via PM or ask Brandye if she has any other thoughts from a medical point of view.

Sorry, I know this has been a long standing issue for you...Suki knows her toys...Brandye the medical expertise.

[funinthesun]

Would something inflatable fulfill this role?

[dancingdoc2]

Actually, you already have two small dildos as well as a couple larger ones. These are your fingers!

Please read this article:

What Can I/We Do To Prepare For First Time Intercourse?

It along with many other helpful articles are listed in the Index:

--BEGIN HERE--w/a Partial INDEX of Sex Info 101 Sex Ed. Topics

Near the end of the article (in orange) is a description for a series of exercises you can perform that should stretch the vaginal opening as well as many hymens. You have the "tools", now, just add water--literally! Please read the entire thread for additional information and recommendations you should know before having intercourse.

Good luck.
Got questions?

[Brandye]

The medical stents are available in stainles steel (very expensive) and in various composites. Because these are usually used as part of ongoing medical treatment, they tend to be quite expensive.

You already have many items around your home that can be used. If you are not completely comfortable with carrots, brush handles, specialty bottles or stoppers, use them with a condom. Or visit a candle shoppe. Candles come in many diameters and many are tapered. The so-called natural (beeswax) tend to become too soft with body heat but most work quite well.

Congratulations on seeing your gyn before going too far with this.