Sex Toys become to much?

[bluetide76]

Hi my girlfriend and I have yet to mess with any sex toys in the bedroom. We have an active fantasy life with outfits and playing roles as well as enjoying lots of foreplay. I was wondering about some of the sex toys like using vibrators on her as something to add spice. The only hesitation I have has to do with how much stimulation they give over the guy. When you start playing with toys and using the regularly do they become the main spot and make it harder to orgasm/pleasure in the normal ways? I have heard stories from some friends of how the introduced a vibrator and now they have to use it every night just to get their woman off and that often she doesnt even want the sex. Just wondering what everyone's view is about toys in general.

[Brandye]

I have one old cologne bottle that is shaped just right. Sometimes use it myself. I have used a girlfriends vibrator and recently had an encounter with a Sybian. Interesting if in a hurry. Not much into toys.

[dancingdoc2]

Using a vibrator can present temporary problems. For example, if a girl/woman has been using a vibrator regularly for masturbation then making the transition to the less intense stimuli offered by a hand or finger(s) can take some time to adjust. The same might be true if a vibrator is used frequently and a person begins to become used to the more intense sensations.

A vibrator used in moderation is not harmful nor will it alter a woman's ability to reach the trigger point of her orgasms by hand or mouth.

[Suki2007]

Like Doc said, it can become a (easily reversible) issue, but only if she begins using it every day. It should also be noted that not all women have this issue, even with every day use. In fact, for many women, it actually helps aid them in becoming multi-orgasmic as well as help them recognize the signs of an oncoming orgasm (which can aid in achieving a quicker climax time). I say go for it - I have a huge selection of sex toys and have no issues climaxing with my partner, as long as he's paying attention to my needs.