want to find a good sex toy - can I?

[lustforlove]

O.k can i buy sex toys over the internet at the age of 16? I have my own bank account and card and stuff so i can use my own money, and i have found a website that uses my card. Should there be any objection to it being sent because of my age? If not can anyone recommend any good first time vibrators?

[funinthesun]

The only objection that I can think of is that you should probably focus on figuring things out with your hands more first. Your in the years where many people mentally determine the necessary lvl of stimulation to orgasm and I wouldn't want to be dependent on vibrators.

[Mr. Saint]

The name of the site may turn up on the bank statement, so your parents might find out if they see it. Because it is probably a joint account your statement might be in the same letter as you parents. Other then that, I don’t think there is any problem. There is no age that the site can see on your account.

[Wahoowa]

i got mine from drugstore.com so nothing sketchy would pop up on my bank statement. but i do recommend learning how without the vibrator first. it took me 3 years and forgetting my vibrator at college over spring break for me to finally learn how to do it by hand.

[lustforlove]

In reply to all your inputs:
Thank you for all the comments. The only reason i feel like i am ready to take the step and buy a vibrator is because i have been manualy masterbating for a about three years now. I know my body inside out and back to front and i know excactly what it is i do and i do ont like. I just felt that i would like to experiment a little more in different ways of achieving orgasm and i feel as if i have hit a bit of a brick wall.

As for my bank acoount i know i have no reason to worry about bank statments or anything like that as it is purley my own bank account as my parents want me to be responcible for my own money, so i have no worries about them reading any of my statements ect ect.

[curious_woman]

I think the age comments are well...odd. Typically people begin to masturbate at 12-14. So by 16 I'm sure she's got it down. Anyways, sites usually don't ask for your name, and they shouldn't anyways! You can always just put an age that makes you 18, its not like you're buying alcohol or drugs...they probably just want age for statistics or something, and they have no way to prove your age unless they come find you.

[Suki2007]

The site http://littlepleasures.org doesn't have an age verification thingy. It just assumes that you are at least of age if you buy. Also, when I have bought stuff, it shows up as LPGifts in your charge statement, so nothing suspicious at all. They also don't have a mailing list, just email, but you can opt out of that. They only email once every couple months, anyway.

For a first time vibe, I would personally recommend something with a soft body that has some give in it, if you are looking for something to insert. Something like this: http://littlepleasures.org/my-secret-vibe.htm

If you just want something for clitoral stimulation, I would go with a pocket rocket: http://littlepleasures.org/pocketrockets.htm

If you want something very discreet, I think the duckies are just adorable: http://littlepleasures.org/i-rub-my-duckie-paris.htm

On a side note, I would have loved to have been able to own a vibrator at 16. I started masturbating at a very young age, so I, like you, already knew how my body responded to stimulus by 16 and just wanted to try something different. Good for you for embracing your sexuality!

[CleverName]

Ok LFL, Im curious what you will do if your parents discover the package you get.. lol. I would like to get somthing for my gf, she said she would like to try somthing like a cock ring, but only problem is I still live with my parents so how would I go about getting the actual package without them knowing what it its? I am 18, and I do have my own bank account so thats not the problem, its just getting the actual package. Ideas?

[lustforlove]

From the websites i have looked at, all of them pack the toys discretly and surley you dont have to open it around them? That's what i thought anyway. When i get a chance to actually get one that's what i plan on doing.

[Suki2007]

You should look under their "Shipping Info" or practices page. It will tell you how the packages come - most places are discreet about it.