KY Mine and Yours

[SexyBrunette26]

This lube didn't help me & my boyfriend at all, it actually made him lose his erection. I don't recommend it.

[vibrator]

There are many different kinds of lubes with different textures and even tastes. Many are essentially the same though, and it sounds like that is the situation discovered. I would say try many kinds of lubes until you find the perfect one.

[bowlbase]

My fiance and I used this combo and like most other KY products it did nothing for me. I only noticed a very slight increase in heat and she didn't feel a thing.

Using any kind of lubricant that has some sort of special effect is always a roll of the dice in my experience. Like all things in sex it is different for everyone. So there is always a small risk of money being wasted on something like that. BUT, I think any time a couple tries something new, regardless if it works or not, it's fun.

[An honest opinion]

Hmm Ive never used lube so I dont really know

[SpicyGirl69]

Regular KY lube is good for anal because it is so thick. At least that's my opinion. Honestly though, I think I'd prefer the lubes with benzocaine in it if I ever tried them because anal sex is often too painful for me. But if you use a lube with benzocaine in it, make sure the male partner uses a condom and that you put the benzocaine lube on the outside of the condom or else it'll desensitize him as well.

[ClosetFreak]

My wife and I have used the "His & Hers" and its was nice but can't say it was thee mind blowing experience as depicted on the commercial. Our favorite would be "Pleasures". There a warming and flavored lub sold at any Lions Den adult store.

[Rouge]

Originally Posted by SpicyGirl69

Regular KY lube is good for anal because it is so thick. At least that's my opinion. Honestly though, I think I'd prefer the lubes with benzocaine in it if I ever tried them because anal sex is often too painful for me. But if you use a lube with benzocaine in it, make sure the male partner uses a condom and that you put the benzocaine lube on the outside of the condom or else it'll desensitize him as well.

Not sure if you'll see this, but STOP DESENSITIZING BEFORE ANAL!! When it hurts, it means you're DOING IT WRONG. You NEED to hurt so that you can tell when you're damaging your body.

Desensitizing your bum before anal is like putting makeup on skin cancer. You need to know it's there and deal with it.

[PaulB79]

Originally Posted by DVDBear

I like silicone for anal because it doesn't dry out and you don't need much, but here's A SAFETY TIP, which I found out the hard way - DON'T USE IT IN THE SHOWER. If you get it on the shower or tub floor it will be slippery as hell and DOESN'T wash off with just soap and water. You gotta scrub it with a cleaning compound to get rid of it. Very dangerous.

ya, i found out about that too. ouch, I fell out of the shower. My wife came crashing though the door too see If was ok. I was laughing at myself but it could have been worse. Slippery stuff. Crazy. Works wonders though for massaging, and anal tough. I fully agree. I bought the garman stuff, Pjur. Really good stuff. Only need a couple drops, and when it starts using up, just add a little water and there ya go, no need to add more.

[dengxioping]

I use a combination of KY and vaseline: vaseline on my anus and inside my rectum and KY on the sex toy I am using. Works pretty good as long as I do not use condums.

[dengxioping]

Originally Posted by SexyBrunette26

This lube didn't help me & my boyfriend at all, it actually made him lose his erection. I don't recommend it.

Try the KY tingling and or the warming on his penis. That way you change the texture temperature. There are also flavored jellies for sex. Also when he is really lubed up, slip a finger or two into his anus. I venture to say he will definately not go soft after that!!